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Wow, we love the 4 levels! We have run into two instances of soft swap folks that were a 3 and a half on your scale. One was oral of the females only, no fellatio. The second was oral of both but no climaxing. And before someone asks she did suck her husband to completion.

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Level 4 with the right couple. But no kissing, isn't that a kick.

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Hi DeLina. Actually really good question, since even WE have different views on it.

I've always defined soft swap as everything except intercourse, BUT, we have played with couples whose definitions were a little different. Some really only want girl-girl play, and the guys may watch or help a little. Others want a watch and be watched situation, with really no contact at all between the opposite partners.

The best advice anyone can probably give you is to talk it over with each and every couple. If they SAY soft swap, find out what they mean - most will tell you outright, as they, like you, don't want any misunderstandings during play! S

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Pretty much what Phucas said is what we think of it as and have heard from others. Soft is no intercourse with the playmates. But talking is always the best, since people have their own rules unique to them, so you are doing the right thing already with communicating. ;) Mrs.

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