How many of you Full Swappers : Swingers Discussion 356971081

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TOPIC: How many of you Full Swappers

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User Details are only visible to members.	Mischief, need a beach vacation??
Destin FL			Username hidden (14562 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I can never quite understand the division of this. If someone doesn't want to play with soft, don't. If they don't want to play full, don't. Why must some people feel they need to convert? I read a profile last night that really slammed soft swingers. They were good looking people, we are more into full. But do I want to play with people who have to go beyond they're preference to put others down? Not on your life.
Saint Augustine FL			Username hidden (12572 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	The idea of softswing = newbie is so ridiculous. We've been around all this 20+years and have come full circle, finding that keeping something for just us is a good thing. That didn't take all that long either. Also like DSCOUPLE2 we value our open thinking friends whether we get to play or not. Not much to say that hasn't been hashed out several times on here I guess this will always be a big divided issue.
Rio Rancho NM			Username hidden (296 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Patogether: Agree. I've done enough hard sex that one more piece isn't the goal. Nothing against folks who think otherwise. I would much prefer meeting a couple/man/woman that is warm, soft, nice, and cuddly. Someone, I can relax with-be comfortable. Than the let's jump into the sack...it's my only night out this month group. I would eventually possibly want to play, but it's not my ONLY goal. I can get dick/pussy anytime I want to lower my standards. Select Mischief<---I'm not dissing the folks on a mission group.
Glen Burnie MD			Username hidden (2785 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	To us its more about friendship. We dont have any mopre time then most of the rest,but we value friendship the most. We would rather play with soft swap couples that allow kissing then we would with a hard swap couple that doesnt allow kissing,and is only looking for a one nighter
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User Details are only visible to members.	We have so little time to enjoy swinging that we have no choice but to prioritize. To us, that means not spending time with wannabes or soft swingers. We try to be understanding of soft swingers, and recognize that in some cases at least they are relative newbies who are sticking their toes in the water instead of diving right in. So we will be glad to chat with them now and then, but meeting time for us is reserved for playtime, or perhaps for an initial dinner meeting with a couple that is an experienced full swap couple. No sense panning for gold in a stream that contains only lead.
South Riding VA			Username hidden (8158 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	MeetandPlay, After reading your profile, realized that we have a lot in common :) We tend to get emails and IMs from couples who are only into soft swap, even though our profile clearly states that we're only into full swap. Just curious to know if you experience the same.
Lexington KY			Username hidden (147 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	DScouple, the lady was way out of line, sorry about that. There are just as many variances in Full as Soft, when emailing chatting and meeting talk about what you do and don't do, then it is in the open. No surprises at all. So many couples do small talk but then do not communicate their preferences. Look we all know why we are here...put it in the open in the beginning so there are no misconceptions!!
Destin FL			Username hidden (14562 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	How the hell do I know if I want to fuck them or not? I may just want to relax, play softly, whatever. They may want to do something other than fuck also. I wait until their boundaries are clear. Because I've gone full on first meetings has nothing to do with THIS meeting. I may want to play. They get drunk. That's the end of it. I could describe myself as full because of past boundaries. I could describe myself as soft because of past boundaries. I choose to describe myself as slow to play hard, Fun and flexible. That's generally true. Annie, They assumed what they wanted. They didn't ask. Even if you had intended to go there, I bet the lady would have found a way to screw it up. I would have personally thanked her. Thank you for proving you are NOT my type. Kindly take your drunk ass elsewhere. On the other side, I had a dear friend tell me. "We will never have sex (intercourse)." It was his normal statement, when meeting women. I smiled. How many listen? He replied, "None". This gentleman has given me many orgasms during BDSM play. We were in his hot tub. I was soaping him. He was soaping me. It was VERY clear that he wanted me to suck him. I became slightly confused. He had been so firm months ago. I stayed with his statement. Later, I told him if his boundaries waver. I will do what seems right at the moment. WEG. slurp, slurp. My point? If during play, you change your mind. I will not change my behavior. I will go with the most restrictive boundary. Only later after a discussion will I change. I don't assume full, soft. Nor do I ask. It becomes clear. I only assume one thing. I will have a good time. I believe that's the best way to approach anyone new YMMV, Mischief
Glen Burnie MD			Username hidden (2785 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Annie, that was really s@#*y of them. What can I do to make you feel better? When we meet a soft swing couple we are very quick in telling them to set all boundaries. Since there are so many variances to what individuals feel is soft swing, we want them to take the lead in all things and also be very comfortable to say stop if we inadvertently cross a line.
Saint Augustine FL			Username hidden (12572 post)

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