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User Details are only visible to members.	BnL, we are starring at the monitor saying What? We think if a woman exposes herself like she did then any male (not just a swinger) would take this as she wants more than she is getting! Violated her??? Is this sort of like when a woman takes Kobe Bryant in a room screws him and says she was raped because she encouraged him up until penetration and then changed her mind! She should have communicated that she was uncomfortable when you touched her! Any gentleman (as I am sure you are!) would stop and that would be the end of it. We would probably eliminate the drama of it and just see them as vanilla friends from here on out! If we were really interested they would have to rape us to get anything. They sound really immature! Puzzeled...
Brownwood TX			Username hidden (11440 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	This couple is clearly not right for the swing lifestyle. I would have apologized when it first happened. for them to make such a big deal over a little thing like that its clear they wont be able to handle anything farther. You guys did no wrong, Just be glad you found out how insucure they are about the lifestyle before it went to far. Char
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User Details are only visible to members.	You are absolutely correct bicouple. I should have been specific and stated newbies who were looking to start with soft swing.
Saint Augustine FL			Username hidden (12572 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Miscommunications happen all the time, whether it be verbal or some sort of body language. I wouldn't worry about it. What concerns me is you state you've had a bad experience with "softswingers", which is not really the case. You had a bad experience with "newbies" that labeled themselves soft, which BTW they could have just as easily labeled themselves "fullswing" and turned into the idiots you describe. Have seen this scenario play out many times, and much more frequently since the net came along. Until newbies have had some experiences they don't even know at what level they are going to continue if at all, its almost always a very short-lived experience, even friendship wise.
Rio Rancho NM			Username hidden (300 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	We just had our first unfortunate experience with soft swingers and I need to blow off steam as well as get opinions. Recently we were approached by a new couple in SLS. They sent us an e-mail and stated they were just starting to explore and felt we looked like good people to meet. Several IM's and phone calls later we all met for an evening of music. We all hit it off fabulously. We women especially had a ton in common. We all agreed it definitely looked like a potential friendship with possibilities for lots more as they explored what worked for them swinging wise. We assured them that the first moves on anything would be initiated by them when they were ready. We also asked they immediately say no if we ever went beyond their comfort zone. On our third meeting we started with happy hour and moved onto dinner. She arrived in a mini skirt with no panties and was flashing half the club. Midway through dinner she hiked her skirt to expose her lips and began rubbing her thigh against Bacchus. After a while he put his hand on her thigh and when she didn't demure stroked it. After about ten minutes of her appearing to enjoy this, there was suddenly unspoken communication between them, she gets up he follows her and then he comes back alone and says she's very upset and that Bacchus has violated her. Jim was mortified and felt terrible. When she came back to the table she asked me to go outside with her. I told her I understood and was so sorry but asked why she hadn't just picked up his hand and moved it or just said "please don't". I am then told this very animated, outgoing person was too shy to say no. Well we finished dinner and to add to the in person apology, Jim also wrote an e-mail to them saying how sorry he was and that it would never happen again if they choose to continue the friendship. They said they wanted to but over the course of the next week of so, HE kept IM'ing or calling ME to rehash this. On about the fourth go round I finally said "listen, we are both regret what happened but I really don't know what more can be said. We don't think it's right that anyone feels violated and then say they asked for it. However, in your future exploration of the lifestyle...please understand that if your wife exposes her bare pussy while rubbing her thigh against a man she KNOWS to be a full blown swinger, he may well interpret that as an invitation to touch. If it is not an invitation then that needs to be said and it doesn't warrant two weeks worth of repercussions". Are we wrong?
Saint Augustine FL			Username hidden (12572 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Well, Well. It looks like Sandy Hook is well in my future. Smile. Mischief<--Thinking Central, and DS would be FUN together.
Glen Burnie MD			Username hidden (2785 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Annie, you both have carte blanche, LOL.
Center Valley PA			Username hidden (8504 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Well everyone, the boat will be in the water as of mid may and not far from Sandy Hook, LOL.
Center Valley PA			Username hidden (8504 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	A beach vacation would be wonderful. A nude beach. I like Haulover the best so far. I've only tried Apollo and Haulover. Fully intend to visit the rest. :)
Glen Burnie MD			Username hidden (2785 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Sounds like most of you guys are on the same page about softswinging and personally I would like to thank you for your respectful replies! I personally find it tiring sometimes to constantly hear some full swing cpls condescending and derogatory remarks about softswinging.Not very often do you hear softswingers attacking their lifestyle preference!Do you put down other fullswing cpls because they enjoy DP,anal, or BDSM sex?Most likely not!So what's the big deal w/ softswinging?We get just as many e-mails from fullswingers as you get from softies,the difference being we are still willing to meet you,and I have to say I'm really glad we have,because we have had some very memorable experiences.Too bad you missed out! "G" the invisible,softswinging, poster
Willow Grove PA			Username hidden (4671 post)

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