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User Details are only visible to members.	HNJ, it's a little late to be indignant and self-righteous. Let's revisit your first post in this thread: "I never understood soft swap (but to each is own). They want to play but not the entire way. Why get everyone involved all excited and then NOTHING. If you want to swing leave your jealousies at the door and go full throttle. Soft swap is nothing but a bunch of hang ups and jealousies that as being an adult you should be over by now. come all you soft swap couples it is only sex, no one wants to steal your partner, just fuck them." It certainly started nicely enough. However, in the last two sentences YOU decided you were a mind reader and could analyze the relationships of people who had different preferences than you. At it's best, it was provocative. Taken at it's worst, it was insulting. And this was probably the nicest post you placed in this thread. When I said it amazed me that people couldn't respect other's preferences and I felt it was wrong to attribute relationship problems to people who swing different, you flamed me. You hadn't even looked at our profile or you would see we ARE full swap and have been for 26 years. I don't agree with the name calling but you did bring this on yourself. I don't understand why you can't say "well, that was a little strong" and move on. Half of what's been said since was people such as myself attempting to lighten it up with jokes. But to say people shouldn't think they know what you are, etc. etc. Read your original post and accept you threw down the gauntlet.
Saint Augustine FL			Username hidden (12572 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	HNJ,HNJ,HNJ You seem to have this odd obsession,insulting me and anyone who disagrees with your OPINION.You really like to try to push everyones "buttons" hoping to push them over the "edge" and sink to your level of replies.You brought all this on yourself,but if you would like to blame me,so what, do you really think anyone on here is going to jump on your bandwagon?I really see about 90% of the posters agreeing with my replies(to some extent) and several "neutral" posters. The "physcho" comment was a joke,you know the only reason you wanted to see my profile was because you made a threat to me that "face to face" my opinion would change and when I didn't back down you want to see what I look like.I thought I held my tongue quite well with most of your remarks! I guess I pushed all your buttons better then everyone else,since you seem to want to single me out. Anyway it was fun while it lasted,but the"pissing' contest is getting boring! I am willing to offer my hand to agree to disagree and go my seperate way. The ball is in your court! Gary
Willow Grove PA			Username hidden (4671 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Let's consider getting back on topic. I understand why some: -Think it's foolish to soft swap. -Feel safer..disease wise. -like the idea of saving certain acts for themselves. -are burnt out on casual sex. -prefer more bonding sex with others, forgoing sex for sex's sake. -Consider GBs hot or yucky. I am into casual sex with KNOWN friends. Casual= few strings. Known friends=not everyone. I am interested in bonding with rare, quality, people. I've had very hot sex with a man whose name I didn't know. I make no predetermined plans. I go with the flow. I play however it makes sense at the time. My only goal? To relax, make friends, have fun. How about you? <---Not rhetorical.... Mischief
Glen Burnie MD			Username hidden (2785 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I am Flexible swing. I have NO problem melding myself to the couple/person....Literally....at hand. Some have been hard core F & S sessions. Some have been softer titillating session. Both have been very fulfilling. I have men I do my squirmy female gig with. That's basically playing kissy face, scratching backs, massaging, cuddling. These are very good friends. I have others I do hard core F*, S*, hi heels in the bathroom, kink sessions. New bicurious women get the lite version and are sent out into the world to find an Appropriate partner. Breaking the ice safely is what they need. I join a couple with the full ability to play with them. What they decide play means is up to them. I won't go in with a soft swap goal on my part. Why? It would be awkward to find them all fired up and me on a different page. Therefore, It's all good. It's a big world. Someone's got to work the niches. Mischief <-Been down and around, ended up full circle.
Glen Burnie MD			Username hidden (2785 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Wow ! Your jokes suck as bad as your personality does!Yes I blocked you,we don't let physcho's gawk our profile,besides we're softswing remember? The only thing "running" would be you with your foot in your mouth! You should really add all these attributes you have in your profile: 1) only secure non-jealous full swingers 2)do not "1 up" me in a conversation or I'll kick your a__!(even if your twice my size) 3)I will f--k your wife so good,she will want to leave you Are you also able to leap tall buildings in a single bound? "G" Like a bowl full of kryptonite!
Willow Grove PA			Username hidden (4671 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Do you have something to protect you from a broken neck as well?
Saint Augustine FL			Username hidden (12572 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Look couple!!! I have a stalker too!
Saint Augustine FL			Username hidden (12572 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	OMG!!!!! ALL of you are just tickling me to death at the moment! What would I do without my cyber buddies?
Saint Augustine FL			Username hidden (12572 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	hnjinpa, I believe if you would say "In my humble opinion", instead of acting like your experiences are the same for everyone and the only way it can be...you would be FAR ahead of where you are now.
Destin FL			Username hidden (14562 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	hnj wrote: <<even in the couples, it is mostly f/f fun first then the guys play>> This was stated in the context of discussing why profiles tend to have more female pictures. Some people here have mentioned that you tend to over generalize. Maybe you are doing that again with that statement. Just to give you another couple's perspective, we have been swinging off and on for over 5 years, and when we are active we get to play maybe once a month or every other month. So we are probably fairly average in that regard. And I must tell you: not a single time have we had a play session with another couple where it was "mostly f/f fun" and where the guys only later got to play. That's totally foreign to our experience as swingers. In fact, if some newbie had been asking us about swinging, we might have said "oh that hardly ever happens" based on our experience, but of course that would also be a generalization so we would be more careful. What's more interesting is that most of the couples we have hooked up with have the female listed as either bi or bi-curious, and even they seem to be more into straight sex than anything else. Now, because we are both straight, we don't claim to represent the "norm" when it comes to swinging, but we are hardly in the fringes either in terms of our sexual interests. So trust me, there's a lot going on out there that has nothing to do with "mostly f/f fun". And I should add, I love (watching) f/f fun like most other males do, so this is being stated by somebody who is not hostile in the least to the idea of play among females. Mr. Content
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