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when did "to swing" equate to "swap", is there any "swapping" going on when a single male is involved? why are people so caught up in semantics? live and let live, do what you enjoy and don't worry about other people.......

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I could be wrong, but I don't believe there's any swapping going on in a girl-girl experience. LOL! Not that there's anything wrong with girl-girl, but to call it soft swap? I don't think so.

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Everyone's interpretation may be different but soft swap generally means oral for all, just no vaginal or anal penetration. If another couple only wants g/g play, that doesn't mean they are soft swap, just they have set their boundaries.

Many couples here will "swap" partners for oral along with other sensual delights, kissing, touching fondling that includes ALL parties. You just need to find them.

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We would like to know How the term soft swap came down to just the lady's playing we fill the point we are in the life style is for all to have fun & be included in the actives short of the penetration with others. We are not set against it be haven't found the right cpls YET.

Frazeysburg OH
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lol Lost.

San Antonio TX
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Hey, my vib and I do soft swap every night lol

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Totally agree with everyone. We play at all levels depending on how we feel and the comfort level of the couple we’re playing with. As far as why some couples enjoy soft swap, here’s a few reasons:

- Some girls can still get pregnant and the risks are too great for their personal comfort level.

- Some people feel that the risk of STDs is simply beyond their comfort zone.

- Some couples have been full swap, only to find that the girl is left with soft swap, more often than not, because of erectile dysfunction while their husband is banging away with the other wife! So, they go back to soft swap. I’ve been there!!

- Some couples simply choose to keep intercourse to for themselves.

We can say, unequivocally, that we’ve had many AMAZING soft swap adventures that WAY surpassed most of our full swaps. In the end, it really doesn’t matter what form of recreational sex a couple engages, as long as they are doing it for the right reasons and it enhances their relationship.

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It just annoys the shit out of me how some people think that only full swap swingers or bed notchers are the "real deal". Swinging is very much a tailor made thing. It is up to each couple and what they want to do.

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I was more comfortable in a soft swap when I first got into the lifestyle. One couple we played with at that time had their limit at penetration, so we would all lay together then fuck our own partner.

It's whatever makes you and your partner happy.

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We are "swingers" so we can swap with another couple."

LOL. Of course...because only swingers that fuck anyone that breathes oxygen is a swinger, correct?

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