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TOPIC: younger couple vs older couple who would you like to play with
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"Love all you older beautiful women!"

Ditto this! :-)

Emeryville CA
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We prefer couples in our age range, however when we got 65 and over things started to change and we find it very difficult locating people in our age range that want to play and be friends. It seems that after 65 there are fewer and fewer players. We are active retired people with weight and height in perspective, but it does not seem to make much of a difference. Just average people who dress conservative but not in old folks clothes and have been looking since moving to Forida.

Manchester NH
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Good Morning,

HorIrish, love the boat. We are on Lake Erie and spend every week end at the boat. That is during boating season in OHIO. We have a small plave on Merritt Island off Rt.3 Courtney and 528. We try and get down 3-4 times a year. Always for 2-3 weeks. Next trip mid Nov. Love to do dinner at the Port. or ??? Mr. n Mrs. P

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We are the "older" cpl - in our mid 50s. We actually prefer playing with older cpls - less drama/jealousy and more in common. We do not have an age limite - more of an "appearance" limit. Meaning fitness (yes! You can be older and fit!), style of clothing (not wearing "old" people clothes), humor and sexiness for sure! Most younger people don't want to play with us (except younger SMs). That's okay! I (femail half) once had a younger (40s) woman ask me if I had "work" done - mainly because her husband was touching me and wanted me. She didn't want to play. Yes, I look younger than my age - because I have taken care of my skin, etc.

Cocoa FL
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I agree with Bikergirl. The Lifestyle does not stop at 50. At least not for us anyway! We didn't get into this till our late 40's and are having just as much fun now. Maybe not as frequent but just as much fun. We usually attract younger couples and males but we have no age preference as long as they are fun, have a great personality and there is a mutual physical attraction. If not, we still have a great night as to us the anticipation that anything could happen is very exciting to us :) Trixie

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Not 32 years here yet. But I feel the same way.

But we are experienced and know we like it. Others who dabble can never make the disconnect between love and sex.

My wife could have sex with anyone she wants anytime she wants and it doesnt bother me in the slightest.

But if I caught her secretly texting or emailing with someone, not just for sex. That would put me in panic mode.

Mount Juliet TN
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Im not opposed to older couples. My wife has more of the age cutoff than I do.

We have seen the drama with inexperienced people like you mention.

We havent played with couples in quite a while, but a lot of the couples that we knew from before are no longer together.

Some people think into things a lot more than I do.

Im not a chippendale and have no problem with that. Im also not hung like a horse either. Though I have found myself bigger than some "8 inchers" we've had. But thats a whole other topic. lol

Its tough to get 4 people to all agree on something especially if you are new and inexperienced.

In the beginning, I wouldnt want us to play with a guy who was hung much more than me. Now its the complete opposite.

My wife had a period where she didnt have the body she has now. She was uncomfortable if I wanted a couple where the girl was fit.

Until you experience it, you dont know how you will react to seeing your partner being pleasured by another person. For many the reality is totally different than the fantasy.

You let your girl get her socks rocked off by a hot as hell really hung guy, when youre more "average"....... Afterwards with some people that will leave questions in their mind. "Is she thinking of him and his huge cock while Im having sex with her?"

Hell, in my case. I get off on the fact that she just might be. And if she tells me she is, I get off like it was my first time....haha

Same with performance.

When you are with someone else, I think you may tend to put more effort into performance than you may usually do with your long term spouse.

That can create issues right there.

Some people cant get over those feelings and it really affects the rest of their relationship.

I know the feelings and get the same ones. The difference is, its those feelings that are the turn on for me.

I think a lot of people get weeded out pretty early on and as you go up in the age bracket, you tend to have people who are more comfortable, more dependable, and already know what they like.

Mount Juliet TN
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I think the older you get the more "age is just a number"

Ive wondered if people lose the visual attraction to younger people as they get older.

When I was 14, I thought 18 year old girls were hot and wanted to do them. Now that Im double that. I still do.

Somehow I think when im 50+. Ill still think that way. Who knows.

My wife has young parents, so as we get older, our age limit creeps a little older as well but is still not as flexible as if I were on my own.

I will say though lately my wife and I do differ. She is at the point where she prefers experience over "youth". Now she wont quite hit the 40 mark yet but she has changed.

We'll get a late teen or early 20's guy or couple email us and im jumping up and down......JACKPOT!!!!! DING DING DING DING!!!!!!!

And she clicks the delete button.........ARE YOU KIDDING ME?!?!?!

But she has a point. And moreso as a woman.

As a guy. I dont care if an 18 year old girl "knows what shes doing"....lol....I know what Im doing, so that makes up for it in my mind. I have no problem shooting her some pointers while we're at it.

But for my wife with a guy. When you have a young guy that doesnt know what he's doing. Then that just means WORK for my wife. Young guys tend to be too shy and too timid for her taste and just kind of sit here with their eyes bugging out and waiting for the fun to begin.

Meanwhile my wife likes a guy that throws her on the bed while im still closing the front door and when he leaves, she can barely stand up.

You just dont find that many "young" people with that experience and confidence.

Then you throw in the "cold feet" aspect. We have found guys under 30 to have a very slim likelihood of showing up. Exceptions yes. But so far the 30-35 crowd has been more dependable.

Mount Juliet TN
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well said, Toby.

And I agree about the imperfections, they make people more interesting. We will enjoy younger swingers, it just really depends on attraction and fun level for us. We don't enjoy braggarts of any age, or people "full of themselves." We're pretty laid back, and enjoy those with similar mindsets.

G.

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I prefer ones 40+ if for no other reason, their mental maturity.

Daphne AL
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