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Good point "chgocupl" the effort expended is WAY higher than the return but we keep plodding along, (the fun is apparently still worth the effort) we no longer view the fakes/posers/phonies with disdain...we just ignore them and motor on. We haven't given up we've just become more choosy where we participate!!!

Both of us have discussed how nice it would be to have a site dedicated to the "older" crowd.

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MrandMrsP-

We couldn’t believe how much your comment resonated with us. It seems like the same time back, but in Chicago, we joined a Social Club which met twice a month normally at the same hotel. We were extremely active, and knew almost all the regulars as well as the owner. I even did some computer work for him and the club back then. Although it has now closed a while back some of the “original members” started a club of their own. We joined them, and that is where we found out that we just didn’t fit in anymore. I don’t know what changed-- them, us, or both, but the round peg just didn’t seem to fit into the square hole!!

Unable to start our own organization, we drifted around for a while, and then tried the internet to see what was available. Our biggest complaint about that is at least live, you had a chance to see people for real, talk with them, and establish a relationship to move forward with. Not like many of the sites that just seem to foster phonies and wannabes. That’s not meant to be a whine, just a fact WE have run into. At the same time, we HAVE met a few really nice people, and tried to start relationships with them. Some have worked, many have not.

I’d like to say this swinging thing is easy, but in truth, it’s not!! That’s not to say that when we were younger, there was a line at the door, but values DID seem to be different. There is a lot of effort expended for what seems like a small return. Maybe that’s where some of the “seniors” have gone. They just got tired of the poor return for investment, and gave up!!

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I can read. I am asking HIM a question.

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can't you read She , he already said the mrs doesn't want to know about this. It is like they guys who say the mrs is in the shower or asleep when you want to voice verify via phone ......... and then they soon disapear like magic

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Mr.Bullfrog so if a couple were interested in you they can call your wife and verify this?

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the church of YA-Aint-Gitten-IT-No-More

Burlingham NY
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I have always been interested in meeting senior swingers in the Atlantic city Area of NJ .

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Sorry to say...that IS a story many of us have heard...many times!!!

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Dear Mr Bullfrog. I can only say Bull seems quite appropo. Since we are expected to believe your wife feels she can't have sex because her religion says she's too old. Do you honestly expect any of us to believe she thinks it's fine, for religious reasons of course, for you to seek it elsewhere?

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I am a married man from new york city, but my wife for some religious reason think she is too old for sex and that she is over the hills.So she said i can go and look for it out side,but she dont want to know about ti,So here am i looking for it.I do hope to find a nice couple to help me ,Thanks,I am from new york city.

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