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We got tired of the younger sets games when we were advised that we were no longer welcome at a local club because we were 'too old'. We and several other couples started our own "Over 50" group, nobody under 50 allowed except as guests of regular members. I think that the group membership is somewhere around sixty couples and growing. Our parties are as much social as anything else, with none of that "let's get naked and screw!" s**t.

I suspect you're right when you say that tastes change with age/maturity and that the things that are turn-on's for a couple in their 30's can be a major turn-off for the same couple in their 50's and 60's. That sure seems to be the case with our Over-50 group!


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Right on, Robnpartner -- Our take on most house parties is the same as yours -- "strip and screw" exercises, we call them. Been there, done that, don't care to do it again. One party we went to didn't even have any background music! Nothing in the environment to enhance the experience. Some clubs not much better. We went to one in a city we won't name, and saw the biggest collection of .....well, never mind.

We are seniors, to say the least, but everything still works -- and we aren't going to waste our time in a smoking, drinking, fucking venue devoid of any real eroticism.

C'mon back to Charlotte!

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I see that this thread has been ongoing for about a year and 7 or 8 months, so I'm gonna throw our 2 cents in (and yes, sometimes my better half does let me speak for her).

We recently re-located from the E. coast to Colorado. We have both (individually) been in the lifestyle for a long time. You can also see from our profile that we are rapidly moving toward "senior status" (me much more than her). We have no "connections" here in the "high plains"; and the one "club" I made several attempts to contact didn't have the courtesy to get back in touch even if only to say "sorry, you're too old".

In terms of the lifestyle itself, we are both as much into the social aspects as the sexual aspects. We have always tended toward group parties and hotel takeovers (look up "Carolina Friends" in Charlotte NC, we're long time members there) and have stayed completely away from "house parties" of 4 - 6 couples. Maybe it's just us; but the house parties seemed to be just a "hi my name's Rob, nice tits, let's f*ck" environment. My wife is bi; but she gets to choose who she wants to become intimate with, men and women; and for us, those choices really can't be made after nothing more than a brief hello.

We've also noticed that lifestylers at or near our age seem to be looking for at least some of the same things that we are. Like minded people that are fun to be around in places other than someone's bedroom. The problem then comes in that too many lifestylers our ages and younger just want to "hit the sheets" and then go look to hit them again with someone else. And at that point it simply becomes a turn-off and we move away from the lifestyle.

So maybe this was the wrong forum to voice our personal preferences; but the fact remains, "older" lifestylers may still be around; but their wants and needs have changed over the course of time. We're hoping that some of them are here in northern Colorado.

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Paperweight--- Medicare won't pay for Viagra but will pay for a penile implant, go figure. A couple of bucks vs $20K, LOL

Garland TX
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add another one to the Texas list. lol I am 57 near Austin . Love all the sexy people in my age range .. especially those fellow texans, Yall are soo cool. i would enjoy making friends with yall. Anyone care t ochat and get aquainted?

Georgetown TX
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Try Sprouts Grocery on Thursdays. I noticed most of the shoppers there are seniors.

San Antonio TX
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chalk up even more for Texas. We love it here.

San Antonio TX
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I always check out the babes in the nursing homes.

Just kidding!!!!!

Jim :-)

South Riding VA
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Medicare doesn't pay for Viagara.

Annapolis MD
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Damn !! My wife just asked me ( Why the eff do you want to move to Texas for ) lol Love to make it 4to tango..Seriously i guess we realy are lucky. so many cpls our age here to socialize and play with. Lots of events if you can travel. Life style cruises are great also John n Peg

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