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I'm still around, and still looking to play when I can....

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The question was rhetorical, not specific, and intended to find why there aren't a LOT more 'experienced' swingers present here than seems to be the case. As long as swinging has been around, there should be a LOT of swingers in their sixties, seventies and even eighties...unless they're just dropping out of the LS entirely. That's very possible, but if so...why?? If they're not dropping out, why aren't they better represented here and elsewhere? What's happened to the more 'mature' swingers that they'd be so scarce?

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To answer the topic question?. I am right here in the north ,above the 49th. Wanna play with an old horse, parts are in very good ship. If the stick is limp, there is the lips, tounge,fingers to injoy. Or as an old saying, *Have gun will Travel *. AS for me * Have Tools will Travel *, Lmfao.

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fjep, just making a statement of what happened . The last large event i attended, in vegas, was told by the male of a couple ,in his words to f-off, when i said hello to both of them. She became very angry him ,told him she wanted to chat with me. His responce was ,* I make the rules and you listen or go home*. Did not do very will that evening, because of others hearing it. Sat the nite parked. But the two that did chat with me, we met at my hotel and chated the nite away became good friends. Will return to another same type of event in 2010. As you and others say to make chances . *No way *, i am whom i am . Simon. To answer the thread question. I am Here.

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We don't get out much but have played with couples whos age ranged from 20's to 60's. We really don't think about it too much, we just go with the flow and have a good time. If we all connect we play, if we don't we won't.

Will we be swinging in our 60's? Probably not but then again who knows, maybe some hot blue eyed blond couple will want to take us to bed? LOL

Painesville OH
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"Either it is the clubs you hang out in or your approach, change one or the other. "

Exactly. We have politely declined many a single or couple and we've told some to Fuck Off. In all our years swinging, I can uncatagorically state we have never used Fuck Off or anything similarly aggressive when the behavior didn't scream for it. It's actually one of several reasons we quit working for The Splash Party Team, as much as we loved most of it. I quite frankly got sick of some people thinking I was part of the ammenities offered for their event package. I guess because I'm middle aged and overweight I was supposed to feel thrilled. Well not so much. Now we're returning to Splash. But not as Event Staff. Now I'll just be the Chef/Caterer hired to feed people and Bacchus my step and fetch boy.

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"Been to many clubs where i was told by the male part of the couple not interested, or told to F--- off"

There is only a few years difference in our ages and I have never been told to 'Fuck off'. And no of a few single males in your age bracket who have not been told to 'Fuck off'. Actually most of the ones that are told that, are MUCH younger.

Either it is the clubs you hang out in or your approach, change one or the other.

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Sinbach1,

With our boating/camping/RVers/Bikers/ whatever club we tell single guys, ladies, and couples that the best way to break the ice is at a meet n greet or other event. It is very hard to walk into a club as an older couple, let alone a single guy and get lucky. At a local meet n greet their is no pressure. You get to be yourselves and get a chance to talk to folks without them thinking your trying to get them into a private room. We have met some of the greatest folks at these events. No we wouldn't jump in bed with many but we did became friends.. And yes some that we would never have imagined sharing with, happened because we got a chance to see their inner beings. Mr and Mrs P

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SWMN...sure wish PA wasn't Quite so far from IL, would love to make your acquaintance! lol I like your idea about a site for "the older crowd"! A while back we and a few of "the older crowd" in our area started our own group and limited membership to cpls 50 and older. We go out to supper once monthly and also have a monthly house party. Sometimes we make one or the other, sometimes we make both (depending on our budget and energy levels), but we always have a good time and Nobody is ever "not pretty enough". The best part is that there isn't a single young "look at me, aren't I beautiful?" hardbody in the group! (Grin)

If anyone ever sets up a website for fifty and over, We're In! No Youngsters Allowed!

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You will be amaced in todays world where *Image * is everythng to most swinger's. If it is not one thing it is something else. Been to many clubs where i was told by the male part of the couple not interested, or told to F--- off. It is a shame to have this happen, but it did, so i sat the evening with my butt on a chair, tell the end of the evening. The way i see it it is better to be seen than not at all. As for swinging at my age ,will keep going until the parts quit.

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