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Yes, Curious -- and that's part of the double whammy-- years ago, we thought nothing of hopping in the car and driving for hours for a liason with another couple. Really don't like to travel that much anymore for swinging purposes -- and we a haven't run across any playmates in our neighborhood.

Jim -- your points (as always) are well thought out. Interestingly enough (and I bet you have the same experience), we have all kinds of inquiries from younger single guys who "love older women!" I tell them: "I do too!"

Charlotte NC
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It seems that we have been in touch with both of the couples who have posted on this thread, but we have never met up with them although we would like too. Part of our problem is that we live in one of the extremities of the country that is not highly populated. Hence there are not to many who are interested, interesting and attractive. I guess we'll have to travel to find what we're seeking.

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We feel your pain! Our swinging had dwindled over the years anyway just because we had satisfied a lot of curiousities we once had. Also like you we had many couples who once were regular playmates drop out due to health issues or retiring and moving away.

We also freely admit that most people our age simply aren't sexually appealing to us anymore. In fairness, we no doubt aren't as appealing to others as we once were, either.

But then suddenly we reconnected with two couples we hadn't seen in several years and are making plans to see them.

If our health holds up, I think we'll quit for good when I reach the stage described to me by a wonderful friend: "Everything that's supposed to be flexible is stiff, and everything that's supposed to be stiff is flexible."

On the other hand, even our friends who have dropped out say "In our minds and hearts we will always be swingers."

Jim

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It is getting harder all the time to find good senior couples -- we like to stay within reasonable distance of our ages -- and in the last couple of years, several couples we know have dropped out. Age, health issues, loss of interest, etc., etc. We are interested in hearing from other seniors who are considering it, or are happy to hang in there at some reduced level of play -- perhaps just remaining friendly with others in the LS for the sake of the companionship --without the sexual component. Thoughts, anyone?

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