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I know that it is a little late in this post but need to express myself.

It is not stated in our profile but my wife will not play with black males and here is the reason why; and racism has nothing to do with it.

12 years ago my wife was single and living alone. 5 black male youths broke into her house, beat her half to death, tried to rape her, stabbed her 9 times and tried to cut her throat.

Racism has nothing to do with her not wanting to play with blacks, it is fear; even after all this time. She still jumps when I try to hug her from behind if she is not expecting it and we've been married 10 years.

Who you do and do not want to play with is a preference, whether it is people of different races or sexual orientation. There are people who state on their profiles, "Absolutely no Bi or Bi-curious males". I can't understand why people would want to exclude half of the population as swing partners but that is their preference and who am I to tell them different.

All I have to say. Hope I did not offend anyone.

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To me the life style is about being comfortable with what you do.Just because you may not want to play with another race doesn`t make you a raciest.As long as you treat all persons with respect your just enforcing your own boundrys.Wheather it be who you play with or what you will or won`t do.

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Red,yellow, black,white,its all pink inside.enjoy it. long, short,fat, skinny,it shoots cum.enjoy it ,anybody want to party with a perv bubububye

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I think it's funny that ebony10inch criticized bullfrog12 for his bad spelling but misspelled "fantasy" in his post.

As for bullfrog12 after reading your profile, it seems as if you're a married man who is creeping behind his wife's back on here. Which is looked down upon on this site and in general and adds to the negative attention that single guys get on here.

It also looks like your sexual orientation is in question because in your profile you put that, "I will love to meet a woman who is willing to or already love anal sex and the husband will love to suck my cock."

As for the racism issue, I personally haven't encountered racism on here. People have certain preferences as far as race, size, hight, etc. So I don't take the fact that a single woman or couple that doesn't respond to me as them being racist, even though sometimes I might think it at the back of my mind.

Certain people have certain biases in their regular lives that they bring into the lifestyle. I don't think this way. We're all human and we all can learn something from one another.

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two very well thought out responses. Thanks for those posts. I find myself nodding in agreement.

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I think that as long as some people treat sex with African-Americans as a fetish there are going to be problems. ('We like BBC'. It's like saying 'we are into cross dressing.') It's diminishes the individual as a person and ultimately degrades them. When you have sex with someone because you like them and want to share yourselves with them and they happen to be of color, then you have crossed the boundary from fetish to mutual respect; the sort that is implied and, indeed, demanded from most of us from/with other couples. Just a different way of thinking of it all.

As much as I abhor bigotry in any form, I think a lot of this thinking is due to the way AA'a are depicted in the porn industry (and legend of the big black stud servicing the southern belle). They are always depicted as the bulls with giant cocks who can go for hours and satisy anyone. People are ignorant and prejudiced in the true meanings of the words and seeing this think 'I want that' without (always) consciously realizing that just by thinking and pursuing such an encounter they are actually involving themsleves in a form of ritual bigotry and negative stereotyping. Even if I had a 10" cock and could go for hours, that is not what I would want to be equated with as to my worth as a whole.

On top of all that, there is just the excitement of being with someone 'different' and/or outside of our own experiences. I think we may all be a little guilty of that in some form. In the same way, we end up minimizing the person and enjoying the 'difference'.

It is something that we try to always remain conscious of. Off the soapbox, Steve

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Ohhhh I despise ignorant people.


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Sky, I have friends and relatives in your area, and I would still say that that area is quite backwards in their thinking yet. We were traveling nearby and looked up swing clubs there, and we were surprised to see one club listed with these words attached; "WHITES ONLY." I thought, okay, only in Mississippi. Sad, but true.

I'm sure racism abounds in other places, but you're in a tough area for openness.

It's why I couldn't live there. I lived a bit south of you for about a year, and the backwards thinking just irked me to no end. Friendly people, beautiful land, but the thinking is just wrong. My parents (I'm adopted, thank god) are of the bigoted mindset that pervades.

My biggest prejudice? Ignorance. And not just ignorant people, but those who are proud of it.

Good luck here on sls, and in swinging.

Gina

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Great post lost.....I wonder why it is that its totally ok and you will see alot of remarks like "love the contrast of white and black" but if you put a dislike of exactly the same thing,,your racist!

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sky, anyone that refers to a human being as an animal such as bull is noone we want to be associated with. Unfortunately, swingers are humans. And when you become a swinger you do not have this huge evolving metamorphasis as a person. So...yeah, you have bigots here. I have had men say that they want to fuck me because of a "latina fetish". No thanks. I think though, in this area, there is a positive "mystique" about AA men actually. They are thought of as being blessed sexually in regard to penile size, eroticism and sexual rhythm. I know lots and lots of white ladies who love enjoying black men. Now in this same vein though...some ladies are not attracted to AA men...not because they see them as inferior, but because they are just sexually attracted to other colors. I think when you are a good guy that just shines through. Keep having fun, you will find people that think you are awesome!


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