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TOPIC: Raceisumn
Created by: bullfrog12
Original Starting post for this thread:
It seems to me as if there is a lot of racism among the members on this sight,no love.
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Hi all....just wanted to add a few comments and pose a question 1....this lifestyle is one of choice.....it is one based on personal and individual preferences. Sure there will be unwarranted responses and many unwelcomed replies, but as an adult we should recognize and respect those indifference then move on..

2.....If race is such an issue then how do 5 blind couples have an orgy full of passion and intimacy if 3 of the participants are black , 2 are amputees, 3 are transvestite with the remaining.2 over weight

Remember.....these 10 people are blind....what are their reactions towards each other if they can only rely that which is not seen nor viewed....only a sense of what is being presented to them

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Pls understand the definition of racism/racist and prejudice. Prejuice is prejudging someone on there appears, or forming a false fact If I only prefer petite over full figure women, I could be showing signs of prejudice on the basic of size. When you use words to describe people or a race of such as jews, muslin, people of color, etc...because of economy reasons, now you're borderline racist. For example, old white men that have daughters in the porn business are tolerate of white men fucking their baby then a black man. Also, White men are more likely to visit porn site, become members and feel comfortable watching other men fuck and suck white women. So, the porn industry has fewer black men and women in the business. Porn industry has made the choice, you white people need to understand that you as consumers made them change. It's called supply on demand.

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Hello every one,it is nice to be back ,I am the one who started this topic,and the reason is that they did use some not so appropriate words to me ,so that is why I posted this topic ,I was never ment to be negative ,I do love the positive attitutde of this community,thanks bye

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I agree, personal preference in who you have sex with is not racist, it's simply a preference. Would you call someone racist if they wanted ONLY blacks, (a common occurrence) I think not. Would you call it racist if I said I don't have sex with redheads? Not unless you are a redhead even then you'd say "OK". (I love redheads by the way) I'll be honest, I'm fat, because of that many won't even talk to me. However others love my size. I don't rant and rave about how I'm being discriminated against. My wife is short (4'11) some don't like that. Her reaction (and mine) their loss. She as a rule she doesn't play with AA men, that is her right just as it's your right not to play with fat or short people. As for someone saying "you're a nigger and I don't play with niggers", that is completely out of line. No excuse for rudness. If someone contacts us who we do not wish to play with, for whatever reason, our response is "Sorry but you're not our type". Usually we get a "thank you for responding" and that's it. We did get one that called us racist but if you read our profile it's only black MEN that we don't play with.

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I know that it is a little late in this post but need to express myself.

It is not stated in our profile but my wife will not play with black males and here is the reason why; and racism has nothing to do with it.

12 years ago my wife was single and living alone. 5 black male youths broke into her house, beat her half to death, tried to rape her, stabbed her 9 times and tried to cut her throat.

Racism has nothing to do with her not wanting to play with blacks, it is fear; even after all this time. She still jumps when I try to hug her from behind if she is not expecting it and we've been married 10 years.

Who you do and do not want to play with is a preference, whether it is people of different races or sexual orientation. There are people who state on their profiles, "Absolutely no Bi or Bi-curious males". I can't understand why people would want to exclude half of the population as swing partners but that is their preference and who am I to tell them different.

All I have to say. Hope I did not offend anyone.

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To me the life style is about being comfortable with what you do.Just because you may not want to play with another race doesn`t make you a raciest.As long as you treat all persons with respect your just enforcing your own boundrys.Wheather it be who you play with or what you will or won`t do.

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Red,yellow, black,white,its all pink inside.enjoy it. long, short,fat, skinny,it shoots cum.enjoy it ,anybody want to party with a perv bubububye

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I think it's funny that ebony10inch criticized bullfrog12 for his bad spelling but misspelled "fantasy" in his post.

As for bullfrog12 after reading your profile, it seems as if you're a married man who is creeping behind his wife's back on here. Which is looked down upon on this site and in general and adds to the negative attention that single guys get on here.

It also looks like your sexual orientation is in question because in your profile you put that, "I will love to meet a woman who is willing to or already love anal sex and the husband will love to suck my cock."

As for the racism issue, I personally haven't encountered racism on here. People have certain preferences as far as race, size, hight, etc. So I don't take the fact that a single woman or couple that doesn't respond to me as them being racist, even though sometimes I might think it at the back of my mind.

Certain people have certain biases in their regular lives that they bring into the lifestyle. I don't think this way. We're all human and we all can learn something from one another.

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two very well thought out responses. Thanks for those posts. I find myself nodding in agreement.

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I think that as long as some people treat sex with African-Americans as a fetish there are going to be problems. ('We like BBC'. It's like saying 'we are into cross dressing.') It's diminishes the individual as a person and ultimately degrades them. When you have sex with someone because you like them and want to share yourselves with them and they happen to be of color, then you have crossed the boundary from fetish to mutual respect; the sort that is implied and, indeed, demanded from most of us from/with other couples. Just a different way of thinking of it all.

As much as I abhor bigotry in any form, I think a lot of this thinking is due to the way AA'a are depicted in the porn industry (and legend of the big black stud servicing the southern belle). They are always depicted as the bulls with giant cocks who can go for hours and satisy anyone. People are ignorant and prejudiced in the true meanings of the words and seeing this think 'I want that' without (always) consciously realizing that just by thinking and pursuing such an encounter they are actually involving themsleves in a form of ritual bigotry and negative stereotyping. Even if I had a 10" cock and could go for hours, that is not what I would want to be equated with as to my worth as a whole.

On top of all that, there is just the excitement of being with someone 'different' and/or outside of our own experiences. I think we may all be a little guilty of that in some form. In the same way, we end up minimizing the person and enjoying the 'difference'.

It is something that we try to always remain conscious of. Off the soapbox, Steve

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