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TOPIC: Late Bloomers vs Lifetime Experiences
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Frank, if you thought otherwise, I'd be really worried about you! :-)

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Wow, thanks pleasure! You're too kind!

Time has been much kinder to my lovely better half than to me!!

Jim

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Wow, valovers703 -- time has been very kind to you both! You're very youthful looking!

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"married at 18 and have been married for over 35 years. "

Why, Gina, you must not be 99 after all!

Jim :-)

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Wow, it is great to read a topic you can relate to, and find that 1st post and most of the replies could have been written by us. We too have been together for ever, 40 years to be exact, and only lately got into the lifestyle. We wanted the friendship as well as the benefits, and have already formed some better friendships then we have ever had in the quote "vanilla world". We find at times, age is probably a problem with other swingers, but that is their problem, not ours! So, when we do swing, which isn't always as often as we would like, we too are like the little kid in the Candy store, wanting more than is probably good for us or that we can handle, but it sure is fun trying. So far not any bad experiences, and have made the best of friendships that have lasted through moving away from the area, and a lot of ups & downs. So, we would have to say that for these late Bloomers it has been a blast that will hopefully last for some time to come.

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We were also both young when we married. I hadn't had any other lovers and my wife just had two or three. And we've been happily married for 37 years. Neither of us has strayed, or even experienced serious temptation.

But about a year ago, we decided to see what it was like to dip our toes in the pool. Before long, we were diving off the highest board available!

Our marriage is as strong as ever. We enjoy playing and we enjoy seeing each other pleasuring others and being pleasured by others.

And I find myself, at age 57, having absolute knowledge of several woman who want to get naked with me. It's the first time in my life that I can honestly say that!

We have both opined that we wish we'd started sooner, but that's tempered with the realization that it may not have worked out well at a different stage of our lives. Yes, there are fewer potential playmates for people our age, but we are finding some and have made at least one great friendship through swinging, along with several others that are coming along nicely.

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We were very young and both inexperienced when we married. About 5 years into our marriage we were discussing if we ever wondered what it would be like to be with someone else. We decided to try it. We have had both good and bad experiences but never regretted our decision. Sometimes we go a few years without swinging at all then decide to meet people again. Each time it's almost like being newbies. Alot of nervousness but fun.

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"What we can't understand is why all these married 20- 30 somethings are doing this? You'd think that they would want to explore their own universe first before exploring unchartered waters." We totally agree with SmoothnSexy on this one. When we were in our 20s, we were too busy wasting each other to consider expanding our play to include others. We didn't begin until late 30s, early 40s when we had used up all the moves we knew on each other and were ready to learn some new ones. We initially got into it for variety's sake (at least from the male perspective -- I think this is less an issue for woman). As we have matured, we gravitate toward people that we share some common interests with and that we personally like. If we don't sense the possibility of being friends with others, the sex part probably won't work -- for very long, at least. But that's us and we know that others feel differently. C&H

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I got all misty-eyed when I first saw this new forum topic...at last something for us mature folks. We have been in the lifestyle for 25+ years, off and on -- sometimes long gaps because of kids, education, surgeries, etc., but usually with an eye on the scene to see if we wanted to jump back in. We did, 2-3 years ago, after an absence of several years. All this past stuff is interesting, but what about the future? What do you plan to do during your dotage? We would like to see more info on such subjects as "Walker Sex -- or Stand up and be Mounted." Information that we seniors will eventually be able to use! Mr. Chim

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Thank you for the thoughtful responses. It's interesting to read the many ways that people approach the lifestyle and there are probably nearly as many variations as there are people who participate.

As to pictures of Kyle, we have some in our personal galleries but none in our public or private ones. We do that for two reasons; As Kyle indicated in his post, we're involved in a six-some with two gentlemen and two ladies and we occasionally, as a group, will entertain additional single gentlemen. Because of that we're not seeing couples at this time. Second, we never initiate contact with any possible playmates.

Straight single men really don't care what Kyle looks like, at least initially, so we only open his pics when it's decided we'll be playing. We also have pics of us together which, besides voice verification, helps show we're serious. When the day comes that we'll start meeting couples and/or additional single ladies we'll need to rethink what pics are in our public and private galleries. Until then, we'll opt for privacy. I've made a couple of other posts about the nature of public pictures and, while it may be surprising, we actually feel we gain more privacy with non-face nudes because nobody except playmates knows what we look like naked.

~ Jen

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