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TOPIC: Late Bloomers vs Lifetime Experiences
Created by: maybe_just_maybe
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I guess we would be classified as late bloomers because we didn't get into the Lifestyle until our early 50's and didn't start swapping until a few years ago. We were always dedicated to raising our children so that is where most of our time and treasury went. We started just by going to Desire back in 06 for vacations. As we were still both working we eventually started to go to conventions in Florida and clubs in PA, so as not to run into anyone that we might know. We eventually meet some really nice couples in Fl and started with a full swap. I must admit being in the Lifestyle put a charge into our lives. We both started to take care of ourselves by going to the gym on a regular basis and eating a bit healthier. We only recently started partying with local couples and have really started to enjoy house parties but still go to Fl a couple of times a year to meet our swinger friends down there.

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We started at ages 50 (me) and 49 (she). Lucked into a great group of friends early on. Like you, we found ourselves playing nearly every weekend for a while, either with one other couple or several couples or at a house party.

We enjoyed it immensely, MOST of the time. There were, of course, some uncomfortable moments which are going to occur when you are pushing your boundaries.

After a while, we found we didn't need to play so often, and that the sex might occasionally equal, but never exceeds how good it is at home.

Now it's just fun to have friends you can greet with a French kiss and a fondle!!!! If more happens, that's fine, but it doesn't have to.

Jim

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Been in the LS for a while and have enjoyed it immensely.

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I am "new" to the LS. My husband is not, and his late wife and he were in the LS. He was married 31 years before she died. I'm mostly enjoying it. Sometimes, I don't enjoy it, because of older men "issues" - other men, not my husband; which take a toll on my esteem. But my husband keeps telling me it's not me, it's them. LOL!

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welcome tbn! I believe you're never too old for fun! Some people start this very early, when they have to shuffle babysitting and work around kids, don't have the money to go to hotels, etc. We don't have those "issues." This is the fun stuff, and we enjoy it when we want to enjoy it.

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Qua, you have videos but didn't post any. : (

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My wife of 19 years had a vast array of sexual partners before we met. We have been sexually adventurous over the years continually pushing the envelope. Her orgasims are my biggest turnon and she can have almost unlimited with the attention of two men. We just got started this past year and are having a great time. At 66 I'm not worrying about it ending anymore than my mortality. Just enjoying what I've got while I've got it. If it stops before my ticker does I'll have the memories and, oh yeah, the videos!!

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I met Gayl at my first party and she had me from "do you want to go upstairs or out on the air mattresses in the garage". Within a few months she announced that she wanted me to bed all her girl friends. Well Gayl has lots of girlfriends. It's been about 9 months now and I still haven't been with them all. It's been the time of my life. It's so thrilling to be in an honest relationship.

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Have to wonder how many other members have been in a monogamous relationship for 35 YEARS. Mrs. Wonderful was quite the party animal in college but was ready to settle down by the time she met me. It took health problems which diminished my performance in the bedroom for us to start talking about a more open marriage. Initially, she was turned off by the notion I might find her escapades entertaining. Her magic wand massager was nonetheless bringing her out of the sexual doldrums, and swinging started to look better if the alternatives were more bondage or a husband sleeping in the other bedroom. April 19 marked our first adventure. There have been NINE more since.

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We are long time Swingers . I suppose we qualify as lifetime as I was 23 the first time . We are now mid 60s. While we were still very active in our fiftys ,we have slowed to a crawl in our 60s. Partly because of back problems and partly I suppose because I am more then a little bit jaded after such an active sex life . The old excitement of a different partner every week is not as appealing as it used to be . Thanks JOY

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