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Created by: JuliaRebecca Original Starting post for this thread:
Let's face it ... As we grow older, while the spirit may be willing, often the flesh is - well - mortal. No, I'm not talking here about ED, I'm talking about those aches and pains that crept up on us when we weren't looking - bad backs, twisted knees, a bit of arthritis in the hands, that old shoulder injury that never quite healed - and are making all aspects of our life a challenge. So, how do you party through the pain? Have you found positions that are a bit easier on those backs and knees? If so, will you share them? Julia

Created by: JuliaRebecca
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Let's face it ... As we grow older, while the spirit may be willing, often the flesh is - well - mortal. No, I'm not talking here about ED, I'm talking about those aches and pains that crept up on us when we weren't looking - bad backs, twisted knees, a bit of arthritis in the hands, that old shoulder injury that never quite healed - and are making all aspects of our life a challenge.

So, how do you party through the pain? Have you found positions that are a bit easier on those backs and knees? If so, will you share them?

Julia

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User Details are only visible to members.	After my 2nd kidney surgery my doctor said . My doctor looked at me ( he's in his late 60's early 70's )and said. You? You need to stay on the bottom and try not breaking any of your former records. Just had my 3rd kidney surgery last Friday. Can't wait to get back in shape and get the party started again.
Philadelphia PA			Username hidden (303 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	We have in fact put "Road map" categories in our profile which could help. Would like to see it as an "official" category with SLS. But even then, many do not really read profiles, or forget them after a bit; and I know that for a fact, the one couple we met; the man said he didn't know we were Newbees, even though our profile makes it clear I have been out of the Lifestyle for 25 years and my wife is a real Newbee. I think it would be good form to re-read profiles just prior to a face-to-face meeting, and there should be some direct questions there (including condom use if not specified in the profile). David
Granada Hills CA			Username hidden (184 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Sometimes the problem isn't so much the persons limitations due to age, etc., but that when they get into having sex with a new partner, that other person doesn't know the physical limits of his/her new playmate. I said before and I say again: I believe there should be in the profile a place to put a Sexual Road Map of the posters. Not just the likes and dislikes, but limitations. I can imagine few things more painful (for both parties) than playing and changing positions only to hear a cry of pain because he/she didn't mention that he/she has a back problem and the "feet-behind-the-ears" position doesn't work well. It all comes down to communication about limitations, and it's better done before than during.
Granada Hills CA			Username hidden (184 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Sex/orgasms works like the best analgesic in the world for me. I use sex to STOP headaches! ha. The most agile swing partner we have is 60 years old and a dancer...she can really really move that body. Gina
San Antonio TX			Username hidden (5609 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Wow after rreading the responses,what are these people going to do when they are in their 60's & 70's,if they think 40's & 50's are old?We still enjoy most positions & get excited enough to forget aches & pains during sex & were only in our 60's.
Hastings On Hudson NY			Username hidden (2 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	one-two-thrust, one-two-thrust, sounds good, you can sign us up for that class. Mr.EvilleMd
Earleville MD			Username hidden (8 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	shakes her head trying to get the picture of the nursing home residents "doing it" that is pretty funny. I personally prefer to be on top and do most of the work, nothing better than a good aerobic workout.
Niagara Falls NY			Username hidden (1262 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I think this is soooo funny. I have a picture in my mind of a senior center, and everyone is lining for their pills and streching exercises, and then everyone goes to have sex. God, does anyone remember when you could do it in the back seat of a car and the only thing you worried about was the cops. If i tried that now someone would have to call 9-1-1 and get the EMT's with a backboard and neck brace. I can hear the Dr. now, What happend here? EMT, Trying to have sex in a car, OH NO! when are these old farts going to learn? they just dont bend like they used to. That just kinda flashed through my mind, Guess its just me. Mr. EvilleMd.
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User Details are only visible to members.	Yoga makes me (M) feel years younger, plus strengthening core. We have a padded swing I recently made that is convertible for a variety of great bondage and vanilla positions. Definitely lots of low-impact fun!
Lineboro Cpo MD			Username hidden (291 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	The banana a day is also good for glucose absorption. Stretching helps too.
San Antonio TX			Username hidden (5609 post)

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