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TOPIC: Am I a Female Cuckhold?
Created by: hotirish4U
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Recently we met with some LS friends that were visiting. They are almost ten years older than us; but both are in very good physical shape. As the evening came to a close, the husband informed me that he is having a lot of issues in the penile area and just isn't into the play anymore! But I knew that my husband and his wife were hot for each other! You could feel the sexual tension between them. So, I told the wife and my husband to just go for it! They went into the bedroom and had their fun. The other husband and myself kept talking about TV shows, books we enjoy and drinking our wine. It was actually very pleasant. We all had a good time that evening; and I really didn't mind my husband having a good time with the other wife!! I was happy they had a good time! I was not jealous, hurt, nothing. We will continue to see this couple, because we do enjoy them outside of the bedroom. But, I think we will let my husband and his wife have the sexual pleasure. So, what do you call that? It wasn't "taking one for the team", or not taking one for the team! LOL! Guess I have become, at least with this couple; a female cuckhold!?

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The term cuckhold comes from the name of a bird. These birds mate for life however in the second or third yr. The male brings healthy bachelors to the female to insure that the offspring are as healthy as possible. The female may mate with several bachelors during her firtile period. Human males who facilitate or invite single men to the bedroom (like me) are often refer to as Cucks. Many people use the term in conjointion with SMBD and humiliation of the husband is a big part of the play (NOT like me) If you are a woman who brings other women to your husband, I see no reason why you cannot refer to yourself as a Cuckhold. And my kind of gal may I add. The term has been bastardized over the centuries. The husband of an adulterous wife is a victim more so than a cuck. Unless you use the term "adulterous" to describe all swingers which in reality we all are. I tend to reserve the term adulterous for the cheaters. That's just me however.

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My husband love too ,watch me have fun ,. with woman BBC & couples ,. & I love 2 please

Weirton WV
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A couple of points - first: the term "cuckold" was traditionally applied to the husband of an adulterous wife, only in the past several years has it been used to describe a husband who is sexually stimulated by his wife's affair with others - either with his attendance or not -- but, in any case, you aren't a cuckold of any stripe, dear. Point the 2nd: As we age, it is going to become more and more common for one partner or the other to become less active, or drop out of the game altogether for any of several reasons - loss of interest, medical issues, etc. Soooo, what is a remaining active partner to do? If the inactive spouse is willing, would erstwhile swinging partners cut the still interested one some slack and have it on with him or her? To me, this is way closer to Christian charity than a lot of what passes for it these days. Would love to hear some thoughts on this.

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BillnSusie,

Your reply in our book was right on target. Excellent.

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Its bullshit that we have to label everything. Sounds more like some old friends got together, 2 people had a nice evening chatting and the other couple had a nice evening sexually. we have had many swim parties and camp outs, holiday weekends where one of us went our own way for some fun while the other had their own fun. Who wrote it that couples must only swap with other couples? I guess if that's the way you play, so be it but don't think it is the only way to play. Why the hell would you find it necessary to put a name on everything and everyone. Don't you get tired of living in a pigeon hole?

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The way I (female) see it, you did something very nice and caring for the other wife. More and more of us may find ourselves in this position as we age (hate it, but it is what it is).

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While you'll find both "cuckquen" and "cucquean" on the internet (2000-3000 entries for each in a Google search), the correct spelling is cuckquean (167,000 entries, and more importantly, an entry in the OED).

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Well, the technical term is Cuckquen. As with cuckholds, the range of involvement by the partner goes from submissive humiliation to passive acceptance to active involvement in recruiting partners for your partner. Try googling tumblr cuckquen.

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Well it has happened a few times that My MRS had the hots for a guy of a couple and I, the male did not wish to do the female half. But like you Irish, we sat and talked, had some drinks and generally had a GREAT time while the wife had hers. I, like you do NOT get jealous when the wife plays alone, as long as I/We know the couple or male and I am present. Close by.....LOL

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It is called Loving your husband and wanting him to have fun. I would do the same thing George

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TOPIC: Am I a Female Cuckhold