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I run our household budget, so rest assured, that I will cut something from the grocery money before I let my darling husband run out of Viagra. Even at 69 years of age, he and I need a good seduction about three times per week, and his little blue pill has him up, rigid, and ready. Those of you who are reluctant to use them, it is really simple. He takes a pill, we watch porn or read on SLS for about thirty minutes to allow the Viagra to get into his blood stream, and then he is good to go for about three to four hours. Now tell me, what is the down side of that?

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Just to add a side note to the thread; We belong to a group that limits membership to couples 50 and over. This group is fairly new, but already has in the area of 40 couples, all with at least one member 50 or older. This is encouraging, as obviously there's an interest there...but they won't attend any functions. We're a bit puzzled. If they have no interest, why join or stay? If they're interested enough to join and stay, why not participate? Any thoughts there would be very much appreciated. Perhaps the idea of putting a bowl of little blue pills next to the bowl of condoms is something that we should consider? (LOL) We've asked the membership about this as well as how we can make the group even more attractive for them, both in newsletters and in the group page, but nobody responds.

To comment on the posting from 'CuriousElders', it has been our experience (over a 17 year period) that everyone wants someone ten years younger than their own age. Sixties look for fifties, fifties look for forties, forties look for thirties, etc, and very few are willing to entertain the idea that anyone more than 2 or 3 older than themselves could be good company. I would suspect that playing with younger folk helps people feel younger themselves, while playing in an older age bracket reminds them of their own unwelcome aging.

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sorry...that is SUPPOSED to say something to the effect that i understand the issue of not being forth coming. typing is not my strong suit.

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april,

i understand not issue of keeping something from your play partner. i wonder...if you would have chosen to play if you KNEW ahead of time that there may be a performance problem. i'm not challenging you. just throwing out a question...curious as to the answers the questions brings.

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There's been some discussion about the little blue pill. Well, between our selves, we use the little blue pill when we decide we want to have a special private party with just the two of us. But we also use it when we want to be sure to satisfy our special friends. But often, things are spontaneous between us and we don't have time to take the pill, but we can still get it up enough to have a real good time.

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It isn't the easiest thing to admit to yourself that there is a NEED for the little blue pill. My understanding si that you don't always know that you've reached that point. You're just looking down asking, "What the hell happened?" Speaking for myself, I don't THINK I'm there yet. Have I had an issue or two in the past couple of years, sure. Was it because of age? I don't THINK so. But WHEN that day DOES come, no pun intended, I don't know that I won't have some trouble with shame or admitting it.

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Interesting data. My husband and I are both 69 years old and are still enjoying sex nearly everyday. With the little blue pill, my husband of 48 years can get it up and keep it up until we are both exhausted. We have to admit that we have only two couples with whom we play naked. Both couples we met here on SLS. We have as much fun now as we did when he first fucked me in the back of his '54 Ford 49 years ago.

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curious...it IS interesting that most of the swingers here on this site are older. not many in their 20s. when my partner asked about it, i guessed that maybe they may still be clinging the to idea of a conventional, vanilla relationship. haven't gotten to a point where they've questioned their sexual interests maybe...i don't know. BUT...so far when the two of us go to a party or club, everyone goes crazy for her. they want to know how i got someone so young and beautiful. i don't know if this means that those of us over 45 are still attracted to the younger person or not. i don't think i have any answers here. just thoughts that lead to more questions. sorry if i sound unfocused. typing as i'm thinking without having thought anything through.

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innervision raises an interesting question that didn't occurred to us - do older swingers rule out younger swingers? It depends who you ask. My wife has signaled a younger age limit - no one younger than our children. Mine is 45; ours is 32. Hmmmm. In fact, our preference is for folks over 50 partly in deference to her wishes, but I can't say that our brackets are firm. We didn't target any age group, but tried to reflect our amusement at how many folks would prefer to mix it up with younger people or those only slightly older than themselves. But if those younger people felt the same way, they'd be out of luck.

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very interesting report. i'm trying to make sure that you're not suggesting there is something wrong with having a younger partner so much as it is you suggesting that we don't rule out the older swinger so quickly. your comments are targeted to older swingers or younger swingers? or just the idea of generating good conversation? either way....very interesting topic. something that has been on my mind lately.

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