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JandGinSD is absolutely right. Any kind of vegetable or petroleum-derived oil will degrade latex and polyisoprene rubber. Coconut oil being "natural" has nothing to do with it.

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Coconut oil, and other oil-based lubricants are not safe to use with either latex or synthetic latex (aka polyisoprene, like Skyn ones) condoms. Petroleum-based was commonly cited only because they were on the market earlier, competing with water-based ones. All oils chemically break down the structure identically. No amount of wishing it to be otherwise, in denial, will change the scientific fact. You have water-based and silicon-based lubricants out there. They moight not be as much fun, but neither are condoms versus raw. You either play safely or you don't. Now, there are polyurethane condoms that admit more possibilities, but who's heard of anyone liking those?

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I think the best containers if your going to do that is the tiny round travel ones that only hold enough for 3-4 times. 1/2 cup would take forever to go through. The smaller containers we might use up in a month. Maybe.

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Coconut oil IS NOT petroleum based and it is petroleum that breaks down latex. For those of you that don;t want to dig into a large jar to get some coconut oil out, do what we do. Buy a package of GLAD storage containers. They come in small sizes that will hold a half cup and on up. We spoon it out of the jar into smaller containers and keep it next to the bed.

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I'm sure if there was something with coconut oil on it on the nightstand the dogs or cat would be licking it or it would gather dust. Much easier just to use the pump bottle of Slippery stuff. Then if I want to take some with us when meeting with others or for travel, I just pump some into a smaller container.

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Coconut oil is still oil and should not be used with condoms as it will break down the structure. However for bareback with my husband best lube ever!

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Surely, you can dedicate one dowel, or one spoon exclusively for the use of digging out some coconut oil! One itsy bitsy spoon, next to your bed, next to the jar of oil, for the sake of not running to the kitchen in the middle of sex.

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because I don't want to have to jump out of bed run to the kitchen for a spoon everytime we are in the middle of sex and figure out a little lube might be needed? Someone at one point said to put it in a squeeze bottle and then run it under hot water, while it would be effective, it still means getting up in the middle of something. Unless maybe you keep it in a baby bottle warmer by the bed. Which if you use it all the time I guess would work. But for use every now and then, too much trouble.

While I have had guys do the spit thing, not really something I enjoy, I find it sort of icky, and not very effective.

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I have no idea how people use lube altogether. I swear, I'm not kidding or making fun of anyone. I can't stand it. I guess for the same reason why I can't stand any lotions, moisturizers, lipstick etc... Just spit on it ;). Not into spitting by any stretch of the imagination, but I can think of several scenarios where he spat into his palm then did what needed to be done, it was damn hot.

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Wet Platinum numbs my junk.

Like... "useless chunk of de-sensitized rubber" numb.... the Mrs. likes it - OK fine use it with someone else.

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