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TOPIC: bi_females_and_safe_sex
Created by: fe26mike
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I didn't see any threads that really covered this issue that well, so I have a question for some of the women. Ok, lets say that you and your partner only believe in using condoms when there is penetration between one or both of you and a member of the opposite sex. This may sound goofy, but my question is, when you (the female half) is playing with another woman, do you use the same protection...what about when using toys on each other?

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And everyone should go out and get vaccinated against genital warts right now. The vaccine is very effective.

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okay i totally get the validity of the question.

i don’t engage in genital to genital contact with other women. there doesn’t seem to be any safe way to do it.

that being said, i don’t use condoms/dental dams for oral sex—so i am definitely taking risks there. then again, i totally minimize those risks by minimizing exposure to the bare minimum even when i was actively seeking other folks for play.

a lil bit of fun was never worth catching something, IMO.

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You people are all insane. You can NOT get STDS from oral sex

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Bumped for NJNY

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Bringing this thread back up to the top, as most are about males and condoms. No answer to this thread yet. Most talk is about female oral and dental dams.

How about the following scenario and question:

What about couples, with "truly" bi females, insisting on the males using condoms, if the females are going to "scissor" and throw the concept of safe sex completely out the window................

What would two women use for protection while grinding genitals? We know transmittal is not limited to opposite sexes.

~Allen

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As a member of the lesbian community and a newbie swinger, just wanted to add that while lesbians talk about safe sex, I've known very few who use dental dams - even the promiscuous ones. YES there is a risk, especally for HPV. There is a risk for HPV with penetration - even with a condom, though. Condoms for shared toys are a must. Easier cleanup, too :)

Dental dams are ok, and I would use one if my play partners wanted to, but for me the benefit doesn't outweigh the hassle. I've had the HPV shots, though- which provide some protection. Also, I would NEVER have vaginal or anal intercourse without a condom, not even for a second. Dental dams or plastic wrap are great for rimming, though - btw :)

I'm still on the fence about oral sex on a male. I like using condoms for it, but I know few people do. I haven't actually been asked to do this yet, so I need to make up my mind before I am asked!

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I guess I disagree.. I cant help but get a chuckle... with the vast world of on-line info regarding the use of proper protection and sexually transmitted disease and virus's, there are people that perform publically oral sex with total strangers thinking its safe. Yeah HIV is not as easily transmittable as some of the lessors BUT.. do not discard them as less dangerous. HPV cause cervical cancer, along with many others such as throat, tounge, esphogus (just to name a few) and can kill.. Neurosyphilis dementia, can be mistaken for Alzheimers later in life if left untreated. BUT.. what one does in their life and the choices they make as a lifestyler are personal. The same goes with what I find a tad humorous, its a personal thing.. I dont judge them for it and have many friends who practice this way. I do get jealous sometimes that they can put aside fears and have so much fun, while I am to afraid to join the party.. OPINIONS can't all be the same or we would be a boring bunch of people.. I find that lifestyler's are the most genuine fun bunch of people I ever got to know..and yes some of the fun is to watch the action and chuckle..

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Slippery we get what you're saying, but there's a BIG difference between risking getting oral herpes and risking getting HIV. Getting oral from someone exposes you to a very different subset of risks from unprotected sex - there's nothing really "lol" about it, and we'd certainly not be dismissive of it.

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seeing a group of folks play orally ....then to cover up for penetration just makes me giggle... people really are this naive... While still new to the whole lifestyle atmosphere I asked a "seasoned" swinger .. How to you handle the feeling of wow, am I gonna catch something... I was told.."you put it in the back of your mind" HAHAHA...... I see A LOT of that.... and its scarey...

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we are practicing at home with home made dental dams

were going to make it a part of our practice

it can be fun with the proper accessories -- flavored and intensifying lubes in particular

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