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I think it is a few reasons that compel folks to swing without a condom.

#1 is that condoms don't protect absolutely against almost anything. If you can't trust your partners you just never know. The condom is good for HIV and hepatitis if used properly all the time. I personally know two people that got herpes while using the condom, and several that got pregnant through misuse or accident.

#2 a lot of married folks use a condom so rarely they are used to the electric joy of being naked, and to give that up makes sex a fraction of what it could be for them -- so they hunt for others who think the same way and take the lesser number of encounters in exchange for developing some that are higher quality for them. The payoff is if they find something good it could last for multiple encounters or years.

#3 A lot of men have erectile problems if they are not used to condoms and for them half the time they could end up going to all the trouble of finding partners only to have the sex fizzle due to erectile problems. That then becomes a reason they would not even hope for quantity but for quality -- and quality for them means someone else who is not so in love with variety that they make themselves less safe.

The nature of the risk is not all or none. You can with your mind and your ability to assess folks' honesty be actually far safer than you can with a condom, and still get some strange. Of course that is a separate skill that many in swinging have decided they have too many needs to put up with, so they are attracted to frequent anonymous sex. Those people would quite logically need all the protection they could get after making the most risky choice up front.

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Quick question-- why do dome cpl cpl in such a risky world stipulate on bareback only I am a recently divorced single male and have have had my share and fun in the lifestyle and loving it. just wondering why in suck a risky work why people wont use protections... With herpe3s and so may other undetectable deceases why the risk safe fun is always the best fun unless you show papers you are clean.

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I have heard for years that uncircumcised men have a more sensitve penis head than circumcised men, due to the fact that the sheath keeps the skin untouched, so touch is really noticeable once erection occurs.

However, men who are circumcised are often held to be more arousable in normal life for something like the reverse reason -- the head of their penis gets brushed and touched by clothing, underwear, etc.

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"To be honest, it is difficult because being uncircumcised I am somewhat more sensitive than the circumcised guy." ================================================ Not trying to start anything here, but unless you were circumcised at some point how would you know that you are more sensitive, and that is kinda impossible to be circumcised and then uncircumcised.

Now the reverse would make much more sense, if a uncircumcised male then gets circumcised then they could testify to a difference.

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Sorry, M, haven't been around to this thread in some time.

Why would you want to know whether we play bareback with other people?

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" does anyone else see the chink in that armor??? If he's willing to lie to his wife about where he's at/what he's doing...don't you think he'd be willing to lie to you about STD's??? "

Wow I see another unintelligent comment !!!

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We're not skirting any issue...in fact we couldn't be more direct...we trust our friends and we play bareback with them exclusively, that portion of the subject isn't open to further discussion....we also stated that we are willing to use protection.

As for the single/married male issue...you may not have understood our post. We were addressing what someone pointed out about couples seeking out married males for the perception of safety. Our post ASKED would you trust someone about STD's already lying to their wives/SO's? Seems like we are on the same page but missing the meaning. We were in no way implying anyones marital status.

Most of us couples on here are adept at figuring out at least some of the "closeted" married males by there approach/requirements...others openly admit being married and playing without their partners knowledge...those are the ones we were addressing...

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We trust our circle of "friends" to be as careful and honest as we are...it is an issue of trust we've all discussed. That is our decision to make and we've stated we are comfy with our arrangement.

It's a thoroughly discussed topic here and elsewhere that there are couples interested in MFM that seek married men because of the perception that they would be DDF...so what was your question??? We simply asked the question: "can you trust someone willing to lie to their spouse when queried about STD's"...still don't get your question...?

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Well to be honest here She did read my profile...I am very open and upfront about who I am, naughty boy?? lol

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Ouch, I hope your quest for singles not married applies to any married unicorn that comes your way solo? just being honest here and was looking for an answer, just the facts mamm

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