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Here is a little hard science and common sense for everyone. Two couples meet and decide to play. The males play with the other mate rubbing her clit and plunging their fingers into her vagina ultimately covering most of their hand with the other wives goo. Now with little thought they stick the same goo covered hand into their wife's vagina and play there a while. Eventually that same goo covered hand gets back to other wife. You can now switch that to tongues. And now to your wife's fingers in the other woman then playing with your penis and back again. Just ask your self if there has even been a playtime that you have participated in where at least one of those three scenario's did not occur. So, if you didn't take the time to figure out if the other couple had something you didn't want you now have it too!! Oh but you used a condom to actually have intercourse - doesn't matter you still have from the finger or tongue play. If you think condoms are protecting you while swinging your just fooling yourself

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I go Bareback only...

...only with my wife.

For many years, condoms were the norm. It started when my dad saw that girls were bolder than when he was younger and calling me on the phone starting about when I was in 7th grade. My dad gave me the talk about sex, a box of condoms and told me to always use them when I have sex. My dad was a military officer, and growing up I had to call him "Sir," so I was not about to disobey his order. I saw several unwanted pregnancies with my high school classmates, and how it changed their lives. I worked for 25 years for a health care company and I saw actual data of how many people were diagnosed and treated for a variety of STDs, and I saw estimates that as much as half of some STIs are undiagnosed. I'm really glad that my dad gave me good advice that protected me.

I've never found that condoms spoil the fun. Sometimes I wear a condom with my wife, even though I don't have to... to keep in practice for our next swinging adventure, or for variety. Sometimes we role play that we just met at a bar and play like we're having a one night fling.

I think of wearing a condom as feeling different, but not any worse than bare. There's even a different sound condom vs bare, and I like the variety.

So, to me, the only benefit of going bare (with Mrs L) is saving the cost of the condoms.

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Does not

The word skipping bandit strikes again.

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I like the way an all cupcake diet tastes. I like driving really fast on curvy cliff top roads. I like the way sex without condoms feels. None of these good feelings outweigh negative consequences. As an adult with a sense of self preservation and responsibility, I am sometimes called to make choices for reasons other than hedonic pleasure.

We are well aware that driving sedately or wearing condoms does not necessarily make us 100% safe but it certainly does up the odds. To say that one does use condoms because condoms do not 100% every time for every person protect from every single thing out there is ignoring both hard science and common sense.

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Well it is about how it feels, We cannot stand rubbers, If the guy has one on that is not having the sensual feelings. Its like your in high school fucking and hoping you do not get her Preg. We both love the bare feeling not just me, Tana says its not even close to having good sex if the guy has a rubber on, We both know that wearing a condom does not in any way guarantee you will not get something, So to us if it was that much of a worry to us we would not fuck others,,

Mickey.

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Why do the bareback folks constantly bring up how much they like it? This really isn't what the topic is. I don't think anyone here would take issue with that. Those of us who insist on condoms don't do it because we *like* them. If we felt safe doing away with them, we would in a heartbeat with probably not an exception among us.

Now, if you're making the argument that we're deluding ourselves as to how much protection we're really getting... well... that can be debated.

OK I guess I must revise this - it seems the original post was asking why people like it. It MUST have been a woman who asked. Some women don't care, but I don't know ANY guys who like wearing them.

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M&M what you say is so true. We play bareback most of the times. It is because the way it feels to us both. The wife likes the feel of a man cumming in her and how warm and wet it feels. She also swallows as she enjoys watching a guys eyes roll back in their head as she milks them dry. We will play with other couples with condoms if the want it that way but for us bareback is a lot more fun for the both of us. And that is why we are here to play and enjoy ourselves.

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M&M Thank you, That is what we have been saying from day 1, Some I guess think its ok to eat pussy suck dick and anything but fuck with no rubber, We feel same that if people are that worried, why even swing? Wife here also loves to feel the cum flowing in her and she swallows, But we still only play bare and have had zero problems.

Mickey.

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Get real! With the way swingers play condoms are not doing anything to protect you. That is unless you put on on each finger, your penis, and your tongue. Every time we have been sucked into using condoms fingers and tongues have been in and out of both wives without ever slowing down. It's like no one ever considers the possibility of transmitting something by way of anything but penis vaginal intercourse. If we even suspect someone of having anything we don't touch them period. If your that concerned about catching something then you probably should re-think being in the swingers scene all together. To answer the original question neither of us like them. I because with out that skin to skin feeling - what's the point? Her because she loves to feel the warm gush of cum inside of her. M&M

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In a perfect world..... But this one is imperfect. We won't be doing bareback and gloryholes. Getting to know people beforehand and earning mutual trust is important for us too. Couples are preferred for several reasons. One big one is that it is unlikely that just one has an STI. Herpes is an example. While it is possible that one could be an unexpressive carrier, completely oblivious to such an infection, that individual's spouse/partner would almost certainly have it too and would probably have had it manifest symptoms. They would know that have it.

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