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* Jotting notes in my little black book

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Just my opinion. It is BOTH parties responsibility to make sure the man uses a condom, if you are not one who wants to bareback.

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I do clubs, events, parties, houseparties and yes I do take the time to let all I will be involved with know before the actual play starts that I will be paying attention and so will my partner ( since I attend these with my sig.other) to clean fresh condoms. I have never met a man I thought was so hot that I needed to fuck him bareback and I never will. Party till ya die.

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We agree 100% with FUNLOVERS. Like we said we will use rubbers if requested,but rather not, That does not make us bad,Also we dont do clubs are parties,We play with very few.

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Pixie... you are absolutely right... and selecting your sex partners and from a woman's point of view, trusting your own intuition in doing so... is of paramount importance...

Decidedly I am not someone who sponsors the view that one should play without adequate protection. So I cannot, by any conceivable means, be called or accused of being a 'barebacker.'

However, that said, I am not the type that will police and scrutinize every guy, every single second to make sure he has a FRESH condom. I always carry some with me in case the guy does not have one. But I also feel that it is the MALE's responsibility to wear FRESH condoms in order to protect himself and his female counterpart.

So, no, when at an orgy and many couples, guys, and women are playing and on top of each other I do not stop the action to ask each male that comes in contact with me if his condom is FRESH and when I've someone's cock in my mouth and a woman sucking my breasts and one or more guys entering me I simply don't say 'time out' and go check the guys. In my opinion that is unreasonable and unrealistic.

I hope this clarifies my stance...

Michelle

PS: And, YES, YES, YES, bareback sex is much better... for one it's a terrible annoyance to stop each time the play when both (or more) are red hot and wanting 'it' to open, fit and lubricate (externally) a darn condom... That is precisely why I play bareback with my hubby and boyfriends (lovers). Having sex with someone who turns you on with passion is the most sublime action two human beings can engage in... That's me!

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So She, are you saying that some people aren't more risk tolerant and some less risk tolerant? That there are no differences in risk tolerances between people? I think what FunLovers said was an observation of the obvious, rather than a simple opinion.

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That is one mans opinion :)

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She, Funlover's posts in both forums is one of the best and succinct about risks and how people choose risks. It is welcome and refreshing reading for any bareback forum.

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Sweet, we barebackers have been the ones who discuss actual statistics of safety. For example condom use is safer than bareback, but how much safer. For HIV the highest figure I've seen cited is 90%. Some put that figure much lower, down into the 60% area. Also important in safety is who you play with and under what conditions, such as at home, at parties, or at clubs.

Why someone would choose barebacking is all about the quality of sex. For us sex with a condom is not great sex, is not good sex, at the most is only so-so sex. We're not into playing for so-so sex.

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Another reason I don't bareback, is because as wonderful as the pill and now the IUD have been for me, there is still a small risk of pregnancy. I do not want to have the child of a person I swung with. I have no problem with having D's child, but at my age...anyway, if condoms were my ONLY birth control option, I would not swing, because they are alot less reliable than the pill, or IUD.

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