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TOPIC: Question to all you Bare Back only folks
Created by: HotWife142
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First off, Please restrict posts to those who regularly or often prefer to play bare only. I appreciate all the well ment comments on Safe Sex, HIV AIDS, HPV and the sort, but I want to keep this topic focused

To those who like to keep it bare back as much as possible or always, What is your attraction to this? Is it the hubby or wifes wishes, or is it joint? Also what is it about being bare that really does it for you or why do you prefer it.

Thanks

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When we were young practically nobody used condoms. The sexual revolution was well underway - most girls took the pill and expected to be cream-pied by their regular boyfriends and even on dates, as sex on the first date was usual. This was all in the pre-AIDS days, but those of our generation who were promiscuous when young still basically dislike condoms. We've never used condoms or dental dams for oral with any sex partners since we both became sexually active in our teens.

We use condoms with new couples but have several "no condom" couples we play with regularly. After we'd known one another for a while, we all agreed to forget the protection. Yes there are risks but we find the flow of sex-play is much more spontaneous, exciting and intimate when bare-backing. Fertility is no longer a problem for us and our full-on playmates as our women have passed the menopause.

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The Mrs here.

We always play with condoms. Yes, of course, bareback FEELS better...for both parties involved.

Mainly, my husband and I are worried about the 2 biggies - HIV and HSV2. The rest can be taken care of by a course of antibiotics.

I really don't want to live the rest of my adult life with outbreaks of genital herpes or all the sh*t that comes from being HIV-positive.

And I had a first cousin that I grew up with die of complication from AIDS in her early 30's because she had sex with a boyfriend who was seemingly healthy, but was not 100% honest with her about his life before her.

I also had a previous high school boyfriend die of complications from AIDS in his 30's because he had sex with a woman who had not been 100% honest with him.

Dying from complications from full-blown AIDS is a *HORRIBLE* way to die. I've seen it up close and personal.

What I know is that...people lie. People don't tell the truth. People don't know their STD status. People could be a carrier and not know it. 1 in 5 Americans has HSV2 and doesn't even know it.

So maybe I'm prudish and that means I won't have as much *fun* as the Bareback People, but...oh well!

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Same here plus my wife hates using rubbers.

Mickey.

Rayne LA
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justus,

Those than can cover and actually enjoy it, good for them, seriously. It just never worked for me.

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Exp. we play bare only and there are many couples and singles that do also. But we do not just jump in bed with anyone. We have caught a lot of negative from some in here, but like I said we play as often as we want to and always play bare.

Mickey.

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Someone commented that some guys simply won't wear a raincoat. That's me. Ruins the whole experience and it always has, ever since I used them as a teenager. So, that limits me for sure, but that is okay because it's not going to change. In a given situation, oral might just have to be my limit when it comes to giving. So be it. That said, I will always be very choosey and careful if I go bareback.

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"f you are going suck his cock without a condom you might as well fuck him without one"

That's simply not true. You need to do some research.

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Ok I have say 1 thing, if you are going suck his cock without a condom you might as well fuck him without one (mind you are on some kind of BC). Just my take...Couldn't have said it better!

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Sed amen

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It is genuinely fascinating to read posts from what seems to be adults, yet so ill informed about risk mitigation!

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TOPIC: Question to all you Bare Back only folks