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You make the person drink a lot of water. If they dont look like a human sprinkler, then you make them pee in a cup for a drug test. DUH * rolls eyes

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" BUT we do not play with anyone who has ever used drugs and needles."

How would you know if they have or haven't?

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Honesty is a virtue in my book.

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Very true cat,,Either way there is always going to be that risk. And thanks for not bashing us on that one.

Mickey.

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JustUs - Hey, we wouldn't do what you're doing, but you're open about your preference in your profile and honest about it in the forums, so people (like us) who would not be comfortable with that risk or playing with people who take it can choose to say "no thanks" to you. In our book you don't deserve any bashing for a choice you make that doesn't affect others without them knowing. And as for possibly being less at risk, that may well be the case, but on the other hand are you sure the people you get with ALSO don't get with drug users? It only takes one exposed person in a subcommunity of barebackers to put them all at risk...

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I guess we are not full blown swingers.We have found 2 couples out of the 4 we have played with.They were looking for the same as we were. Just 1 or 2 couples to play with.We have played with them twice in a whole year. And yes always bareback. BUT we do not play with anyone who has ever used drugs and needles.If you think about it,People who do not use drugs and dont just fuck anyone are probly as safe as any. Im sure Ill get bashed on this one,But oh well thats just the way we roll..

Mickey.

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Since we started swinging we have changed our rules on a few things. I guess you can say we " evolved" The one MAJOR rule is no bareback ever. We will never change our minds about that. The other is ,we always play together as a couple.

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I dont think there is any in the games forum. You wanna go in and stir up some trouble ;)

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LOL - that's why I said every forum, not every thread :)

Anyway, back to the topic, PDGunth is hitting on something good there. We know plenty of people who don't bareback, but who also will go to a party and get nekked with whoever's in the group room without any knowledge of who they are, how often they play, and whether they generally play safe. We also know one couple who we've known for 6 years now who have been exclusive with 2 other couples for the last 3 years but play bareback with them. They are taking the chance those other couples aren't being truthful, but my money says their overall risk is lower than the party types.

In short, bareback -vs- no-bareback is only part of the risk equation...

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Every... single... forum... Some threads yes. Not every single one..

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