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Some do, some don't.

We don't put condoms required because we, like Fun, feel it is the default position in today's world.

The most important thing in any relationship is communication. If something that is a deal breaker to you is not on a profile, ask.

San Diego CA
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DoinItOurWay, welcome to the forums. Obviously, you've already noticed that some people speak more bluntly than others, and some people can deal with bluntness in different ways. Don't let it bother you; just roll with the punches and have fun.

On the topic, I've always just assumed that safe play (condoms for penetration) was the default, unless a couple specified otherwise. Boy, was I wrong. There have been several times I was in the process of putting on a condom when she told me I didn't need to do that. Sometimes, specifically asking that I don't. That scares me.

I also wish that couples would be more specific in their profiles about their preferences. I have no idea why they don't.

Belle Chasse LA
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Hello all, we're a new couple to SLS. We have been reading these forums and they are definitely interesting to say the least. Hopefully this topic that we start doesn't become a huge argument between folks or people just insulting one another, as other topics have. With that being said, we ask that people only contribute if they have something constructive to say that adds to the topic. So here it is:

Why is it that more couples who prefer not to play with condoms don't expressly state it on their profile? Are they afraid that more couples won't want to meet with them? Are they afraid of being shunned?

Any feedback is appreciated...

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TOPIC: Preference Honesty
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