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Created by: talosian Original Starting post for this thread:
I haven't used a condom since I was 21 and to date, the Fates have been kind to me, even through the Swinging Years (not the Big Band era). Now, I know with AIDS and the proliferation of STD, most Lifestyle (not all), require condoms. So there is my question. Just before we come to the U.S. and hope to meet some Lifestyle people, I (David) intend to get lab work (VDRL/HIV) and knowing it will be clean, will offer it as *blueproof/blue* I am safe. Of course I know this is only valid with the first partner, but it may be better than nothing. So would you accept this from a guy? With the above said: I would try it with a condom but don't know if I could rise to the occasion (pun here). Still, I would probably be reasonably happy to have the episode conclude with me being finalized some way other than through intercourse; something is better than nothing, and I get great pleasure from giving oral and past that point is frosting on the cake. Carpe Diem David/Jackline

Created by: talosian
Original Starting post for this thread:

I haven't used a condom since I was 21 and to date, the Fates have been kind to me, even through the Swinging Years (not the Big Band era).

Now, I know with AIDS and the proliferation of STD, most Lifestyle (not all), require condoms. So there is my question.

Just before we come to the U.S. and hope to meet some Lifestyle people, I (David) intend to get lab work (VDRL/HIV) and knowing it will be clean, will offer it as ***blue***proof***/blue*** I am safe. Of course I know this is only valid with the first partner, but it may be better than nothing.

So would you accept this from a guy?

With the above said: I would try it with a condom but don't know if I could rise to the occasion (pun here). Still, I would probably be reasonably happy to have the episode conclude with me being finalized some way other than through intercourse; something is better than nothing, and I get great pleasure from giving oral and past that point is frosting on the cake.

Carpe Diem

David/Jackline

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User Details are only visible to members.	"Condoms are also helpful in that I can sometimes last the whole 4, 5 minutes.....no no I meant 45, FOURTYFIVE minutes." Hey, if you are going to last that long, great; I'll catch up at some point.
Granada Hills CA			Username hidden (184 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	"At least they don't expire until the end of 2013." Cool, that gives us plenty of time to meet! Brother, when you run into a woman the knows the art of getting you suited up that is a whole nuther erotic event by itself. If I may opine a bit I'm thinking that when a woman knows you care enough and that your member is encased in a safety net then she focus more on the majic and not worry about the trajic. Condoms are also helpful in that I can sometimes last the whole 4, 5 minutes.....no no I meant 45, FOURTYFIVE minutes. H
Brunswick GA			Username hidden (638 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Well, I read a thread here about different condoms and got these because of some very positive reviews. But as I said before; will have to practice with Jackline. <smile> I know ordering 50 is being a real optimist unless my 50s+ Cruising Senior Swingers" group really takes off and we find some SLS people. At least they don't expire until the end of 2013.
Granada Hills CA			Username hidden (184 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	David, you may find that the non-latex condoms work better for you than the latex. Mr. Minuet notices a big difference - they transmit more heat and thus more sensation. Condoms are more of an issue for older swingers, very true, but anyone who wants to play needs to be prepared to use a condom. Even though they are not perfect, it's very reasonable for possible partners to expect them to be used.
Canton NY			Username hidden (23 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	SheLikes - - Yes, you are right that, especially today w/computers, graphics and all, anyone can make any official looking document. But of course, the picture of me having dinner with Bill Clinton at the White House is 100% legit <smile>. I remember "back-when," I was with a somewhat closed group; one of the requirements for entry was current lab work showing all negatives. At least this was an attempt of sorts to keep things clean (little pun there). As I said, the Fates were good to me and I never had a problem, though I did know at least one woman who picket up genital herpes, but that was not in a swinging situation, but from a young(er) guy she hooked up with at a bar. FWIW.
Granada Hills CA			Username hidden (184 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Anyone can make up a document. ( not that you would) With that said , even if it was real I would pass. You have to cover for your lover :)
Augusta NJ			Username hidden (16075 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Score seems to be: Condoms 10 - papered 0. Looks as if I want to play, I had better get into practice after 50-years of barebacking (with no problems). Poor Jackline (Major LOL), I may have to send her to Goodyear for a retread (or the Virgin Islands for recycling). On the other hand; it may take a plastic surgeon to get the smile off her face. Seriously; thanks to all for your candid input; very much appreciated. David
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User Details are only visible to members.	I would not either.
San Marcos TX			Username hidden (23651 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	"So would you accept this from a guy?" No.
Corpus Christi TX			Username hidden (16526 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Not a chance use the glove or no love.
Salisbury MD			Username hidden (20 post)

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