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TOPIC: Condoms in MFM
Created by: Branches2
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I almost had a three some tonight. But One backed out "literally " because I wanted them both to wear condoms. This would have been my first "DP".!!! *_* Because I insisted on condoms they said no thanks. We're clean. You are safe. Any thoughts???

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Branches, the sad truth is that your partners in this situation were assholes. In my opinion, you are better off without them. You disclosed up front and they wanted you to abandon your standards the heat of the moment? Assholes. Don't worry, your chance will come. There are PLENTY of guys out there that would be happy to help you fulfill your fantasy, on your terms.

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My friends straight Swinger parents got HIV swinging back in the 90's.


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I/we would insist on condoms. You should. I would insist and turn you down if you asked me not to. Bareback is for monogamous couples, or say for the couple not the playmate.


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Spankybuns- if you have poked an infected woman, it doesn't matter if she was having an outbreak. The difference is very low... Meaning that infection is still far too high. Thus one of the reasons I want Gardasil to be covered under insurance, without regard to age. (current cut off is 26)

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If I had herpes I would probably get on a forum/community where no-one cared because everyone had it anyway!

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Not at all, I would probably just try to hook up with people who already have it at that point since warning people is going to scare 90% away, especially since I am single sausage to begin with. I agree that the morally right thing to do is tell and let others decide and take that chance, I just don't think we should have laws enforcing it, that's all. But on the other side, although I don't have herpes, I'm sure I've porked women with herpes unwittingly. I would just hope they're on their medication and not shedding/outbreaking. The 100% ethical thing to do is warning in addition to this last point, but let's hope this last point is the bare minimum for any person with a modicum of decency.

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but if you do get herpies will you play with others without telling them? if you dont tell them and you KNOW you have it, then it should be against the law.

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It's not akin to assault or murder at all because you're willingly participating in the behavior. Of course the person who has AIDS and is cunting around with everyone unprotectedly is an asshole, but we can't sue someone for being an asshole. We don't (nor should we) have a legal remedy for everything and you just have to accept that certain behavior entails risk. Maybe we should get to know people better before fucking but that's not of interest to me which is why I'm here. Perhaps I'll get herpes for it someday but that is a chance I take and you won't see me whining about being a victim over it.

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Really wish laws would update to say that if a person knew they were infected, and played with others without first warning them... that it is akin to some form of assault or murder.

i gotta agree with this, if you KNOW you have something and you play with someone without first telling them.

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Robert-except for your first sentence, I disagree with your post for a lot of reasons, mostly because it is so unrealistic but also because it advocates government regulation in our private lives.

Yeah, it is advisible to use rubbers since it does provide some protection against viral STDs and substantial protection against bacterial STDs and unwanted pregnancy. However, 80% of females have HPV by the time they are 50. In this community, make that around 97% or so. HPV is incurable. So, on that basis, should all females here not be active on the website? I hope the hell not.

As far as advocating legal punitive sanctions against assholes who knowingly infect others, no thank you. Not because I think not having any scruples is fine, but because I don't need the nanny state to start regulating my behavior in my private life. You're opening a can of worms here, what next? Jail because I lied to my wife? Prison under the veil of hate-speech because I called my wife a cunt? Of course these things are mean but I'd rather handle life's challenges instead of running to the nanny state for a solution for problems I've brought on myself.

Which comes to my final point: You make your choices in life. There is risk in this lifestyle. If you are overly fearful of VD, you probably shouldn't be here. Single women here are particularly vulnerable in a way men just aren't. But we take our chances because the pleasure we derive from it outweighs the risk of consequences to us. My greatest fear here is that I might wind up with herpes someday. If I do, I shouldn't be able to call the police because some skank here gave it to me, being on here, it's a risk I took being on here or the same risk I take picking up a chick at the bar. It's the nature of the beast, we can't and shouldn't have a legal remedy for everything.

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TOPIC: Condoms in MFM