Condom apathy and erection issues pet peeve: Swingers Discussion 1054431061

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TOPIC: Condom apathy and erection issues - pet peeve

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User Details are only visible to members.	"takes one Cell of HIV to infect someone" Actually that's not true. HIV is not that infectious. It takes a large number of infected cells to cause someone to contract HIV. Hep-b on the other hand is HUGELY infectious. Here's the story. If you put one drop of HIV tainted blood in a bath tub...you will not get it. If you put one drop of Hep-B tainted blood in a tub..you will most certainly get it. Hep-C doesn't appear to be sexually transmitted at all. It's blood to blood. So, get your hep-B shots. I would have not done that guy who got pissed when the condom was produced. It proved that he was VERY selfish and gave not one wit about any other female in his life...including his wife if he had one. I don't expect Major love..but the simple respect of one for another...that's another story. M.
Glen Burnie MD			Username hidden (2785 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	ohhboy46, You brought up an interesting issue. Letting lust get the better of someone cause of not thinking straight at that moment. He may have been unhappy, but she would have had to worry about things afterwards which is NOT worth the price. What are others thoughts about males tricking females by selfishly removing the condom without permission in the middle of play even though they were told no unprotected sex several times?
Fort Worth TX			Username hidden (8590 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	" And I saw men go from woman to woman to woman" I have been to places where those "puppy piles" have happened. One night at a pool party there were two piles of about 25 people each. I sat back and just watched the transfer.. This same party at a home had a SMALL hot tub. It would fit 4 people max. I watched as the water became fetid over whelming the sanitary conditions. I swear you could have gotten pregnant in that water. Most folks only deal with one or two couples at a time. Transfer risk is less obvious. I don't get paranoid about it unless my gf is present. She is fertile and I watch very closely to make sure no semen gets into her. The reality is we still have fun. One way I keep her safe is to have her get on her hand and knees with her feet next to a wall. Then I can close my eyes knowing no one can sneak up behind her...smile. She has a GREAT ass. ;) I'm much more relaxed if I'm by myself. Mischief is off to the Trap in Hotlanta not this weekend but next.
Glen Burnie MD			Username hidden (2785 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	It's important not to get caught up in the moment so much that you ignore rules...especially your own. I agree with Mischief...I'm LOUD about safety and it can kill the moment...not MY problem, tho. In fact, I'm loud so that ideally it won't be MY problem.
Cocoa FL			Username hidden (645 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I have encountered issues with condoms and erections. The one poor man omg had a latex reaction. OMG. That is NOT the place to get an allergic reaction ha. I think the older generation has issues with them more than younger men. Number one, single men are used to wearing them often where husbands don't wear them with their wives so they just aren't used to them. I have had men tell me that they "train" their cock so to speak by wearing them for like a month even with their own wives. This gets them used to the things. I can't imagine they are comfortable haha but they are necessary. Raven in regards to safety and carelessness....OMG you are right. We went to a house party once just because our friends were hosting and wanted us there cause I was on my period. So its this huge group orgy and we are sitting there kind of watching........and my mouth is gaped open. I could not believe what I was seeing ha. This was not a small, intimate group of people who knew each other. This was a pretty large group there in this living room. And I saw men go from woman to woman to woman......I was like fuck snap. Anyways yes we have to take charge over the safety of our own bodies and not assume that others are the same.
San Marcos TX			Username hidden (23638 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	"It is because of reading your postings over the years that I have become more aware of safer sex practices other than condoms. You influence many that say little, but pay attention babygirl! " I really appreciate that. I sincerely try to enlighten the masses about all the areas that most folks are lax in. This is why things (herpes, HPV) are soooo everywhere. I think like a medical professional not a chick out on a Saturday night. I have tried all sorts of safer sex practices...just to try them out. Most I have discarded as unworkable, no fun, or more bother than the risk the appear to control. Currently, I merely use condoms and don't move my hand from one woman to another. Left hand is mine and right hand is the other ladies hand. If I am really busy. I wash with either Purell type lotion or soap and water. Purell doesn't require me to get up. A large plus. Smiles. Very much like your posts too. Mischief
Glen Burnie MD			Username hidden (2785 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Gina, When guys start to get weirded out cause they can't get hard I tell them to relax and let it go. I'll hand them toys and hopefully they will relax and enjoy enough to ease it off their mind. The more stressed they get, the more it isn't gonna happen. I'll continue to give them attention here and there in hopes that something will come up (: I'm extremely patient and would never say anything that could cause any problems. There's always another day! Drinking is very much part of the problem for some males. Why they do that to themselves is beyond me.
Fort Worth TX			Username hidden (8590 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	The drinking seems to be the biggest issue, esp. at hotel parties. If it happens with a male partner, we just do other things, no big deal to me. I can always get fucked hard later with Dan! Or then, or whenever I want... My point is usually to not let the guy feel bad about it, so I just shrug, say "that's ok," we can try something else, esp. if he feels like he should appologize. I'd much rather he appologize for cumming too fast...hehehee...but that's just me. Gina
San Antonio TX			Username hidden (5609 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Mischief, Thanks! I will pick up some cock rings next toy store visit (: I had a male roomy back in my 20's who loved using them. Can't deny I enjoyed the hell out of them too. blushes That's something that is not in my already over-flowing toy bag. chuckles It is because of reading your postings over the years that I have become more aware of safer sex practices other than condoms. You influence many that say little, but pay attention babygirl! I've learned a ton from you and appreciate/look forward to all your postings. Keep it up please! I'm not sure I'm ready to do the dental dams. I've considered it though... I've started asking bluntly if condoms will be an issue on maintaining an erection. Funny how everyone I have asked so far has said no. LOL! I decided to make other plans for this weekend. I haven't been able to relay my thoughts to the host yet so la vida se enciende!(life goes on!)
Fort Worth TX			Username hidden (8590 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Suggest some jelly or silicone cock rings over the condom...to keep the erection viable. I have the same problem. It amazes me who sloppy folks really are. They "seem" to use more up this way..but them I do screen them fairly well. I, too, always have a small bag with at least 2 sizes plus non latex, nitrile gloves, and a lollidam.. smile. That's one thing I don't use... Oral sex coverings... Mischief understands your situation...
Glen Burnie MD			Username hidden (2785 post)

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