Condom apathy and erection issues pet peeve: Swingers Discussion 1054431021

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TOPIC: Condom apathy and erection issues - pet peeve

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User Details are only visible to members.	I beg to differ with you, M. At least with an STD, the only person who has to "deal" is the one with said STD, as opposed to an unwanted child. Also, some STDs are easily treated. Some.
Chesapeake VA			Username hidden (11695 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	One thing I overlooked is the role of rubbers in birth control which is invaluable. As long as it doesn't fall off it is extremely effective in preventing pregnancy and it is pretty foolish and risky for any unfixed guy to fuck relative stranger or unstable women without one. Now if you've had a vasectomy like me, the real danger that condoms really protect against (unwanted fatherhood) is gone so their real benefit is rendered futile against my elected infertility. Unwanted fatherhood is as bad as any STD but few really talk about it here, they just belabor and lament about the dread of STDs that they've likely had exposure to anyway and act as if because they use rubbers they've got a get out of jail free pass. I think they're delusional and flouting logic and common sense.
Saint Clair Shores MI			Username hidden (228 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	This topic to me is moot because the lifestyle we're all involved in puts us at high risk of eventually getting an incurable viral STD, rubber or no rubber. Wearing a rubber you still have some skin on skin genital contact so it's silly to write as if one is holier than thou because s/he insists on rubbers while condemning others as lowlife scumbags or stupid because they opt out of rubber usage. Sorry to break it to you rubber snobs but having sex with mulitple persons who also have sex with multiple persons renders the long term effectiveness of condoms very limited. That being said I usually wear rubbers but I'm definitely not a snob about it and I am not always absolutely consistent although it is my general preference even though it only offers very limited long-term protection.
Saint Clair Shores MI			Username hidden (228 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Not wearing a condom has more possible implications than diseases. I had a single woman a few years ago say that she did not like them and I was just stupid. I mean I love my kid but it is very expensive.
Hoboken NJ			Username hidden (874 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Sounds to me like your partner and you have some serious communication problems. My wife would be LIVID if I had bareback sex with anyone. This is a "hard rule" for us. Hard rules are ones that under no circumstances may be brought up for discussion in the "heat of the moment". To break one is a serious breach of trust. If we ever choose to make an exception or modify a hard rule, it must be done in advance.
Chesapeake VA			Username hidden (11695 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I read through the thread. Saw the cock ring suggestion. It's a good suggestion especially for males with large penis to hold the erection once they get it. I've also been considering to try the female condom. I hear reviews that they are "awful" in that they are noisy and can slip easily. But I have yet to try for myself. I expect they wouldn't be my choice in vanilla life, but just maybe it's an option that can work in swinger life. The one definite benefit is that they don't restrict the penis. They also cover a bit of the outer vagina which gives better protection against hpv/herps. Final suggestion: carry viagra. Although my boyfriend doesn't need, he's always got a pack on hand to lend if he see's a guy having erection trouble with me. It eases the discomfort if it's a guy to guy suggestion. And my b/f knows that his girl is going to be unhappy if something doesn't happen lol. I personally don't care if that's what they need to get the job done.
Greenville DE			Username hidden (2 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Seduction4Two, no, I don't consider this issue a cat fight. It's more serious........ In your opinion it's okay to call me (and a lot of other people) stupid for not using condoms all the time. That's not an attack and perfectly fine. Now I voice MY opinion to call people who call me ( and a lot of other people) stupid, stupid themselves for being so generalizing and intolerant. All of a sudden it's an attack. What gives? Do you just don't understand me, or you don't WANT to understand me? I understand that you most likely insist in condoms all the time. Perfectly fine with me, not the slightest problem. I would never call you or anybody stupid for that. But if some intolerant idiot has to blurt it out some dumb statement here, I think I have the right to voice my opinion too. In any case, no further comment needed.
Riverside CA			Username hidden (23 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Catfight? Can I watch?
New Orleans LA			Username hidden (66 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	No problem Seduction4Two. They call me stupid, but I cannot call them stupid for calling me stupid, or in your terms they can shoot at me but I cannot shoot back. OK, problem solved.
Riverside CA			Username hidden (23 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I think intolerant is the correct term. Calling someone stupid just incites anger and retaliation. There are those who are intolerant of people who go bareback and those who are intolerant of the superior attitude of condom users.
Youngstown OH			Username hidden (11414 post)

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