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That was my last posting here... I feel I made myself abundantly clear... Bye...

Michelle

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This is getting to be utterly boring... and moronic... lol...lol...

The arguments being used are childish... to say the least...

It seems that some here are intent in saying that I practice UNSAFE sex when that is absolutely not the case... If I were a so called 'barebacker' or one who refuses condoms then I would not carry them with me and offer them whenever possible and practicable... nor would I have them at my parties for both women and guys... Furthermore, some think that by wearing a condom they are home safe... lol... lol... They are NOT.

My suggestion is that if one is so afraid and feels apprehensive and uneasy of taking reasonable risks by being in the lifestyle, then one should not be in the lifestyle... You can't have your cake and eat it too...

The lifestyle is not for people who feel they need a totally riskless 'life style.' Sexually transmitted diseases can be propagated by, for example, a woman having oral sex on a guy and then on another woman, or a guy having oral sex on a woman and then on another woman, etc., etc... The possibilities are endless... And doesn't the fact that I've never ever had sexually transmitted diseases say something about my judgement and level of practicing safe sex..? Draw your own conclusions...

In addition to the physical risks there are emotional and related risks... which are much greater and have larger consequences than other type of lifestyle risks... Think about it, if you are one who fears and feels uneasy about life's reasonable risks... You may wish to shun away from any risk taking if that makes you so uncomfortable...

If a couple if so fretful as to dedicate a considerable amount of time and effort to make themselves 'riskless' then you are in the wrong 'life style...' Stay home and enjoy yourselves alone... No need to share yourselves with others and thus put yourselves in jeopardy...

The issue some may have with me is not barebacking, which I don't practice...

The issue some may subconsciously may have is that I'm more liberated than the average swinger in that I play with guys, couples and women both with and without my main partner and that may feel threatening to some... But that is my choice and I still enjoy a strong relationship with my hubby and boyfriends (lovers) as opposed to the more casual people I play with... Some may wish to paint me as a monster with seven heads... lol... lol... In fact that may be a reflection on themselves and/or their life attitudes overall...

Yet in this lifestyle, people are in principle 'OPEN MINDED' and should be tolerant with others' styles and choices... Because we live in a pluralistic society (and more so in this lifestyle) I refrain from imposing my views on others... for example I have many dear friends that are against women's rights such as 'choice' and we are very close friends even when they know that I am pro women's rights such as 'pro-choice.' We lovingly tolerate each others' differing views...

That is the 'heart' of the matter, even when some may not like to admit it... lol... lol...

Michelle

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Ty she we are very honest with people,Guess we were raised like that. That is why we put that in our profile,Just like we also put truth about mixing races, we don't but have nothing against those who do.. And your right honesty is the best way to be in life..

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Yes you are Justus. You are also very honest and state that in your profile. Unfortunately, not all swingers are as honest .

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But I also feel that it is the MALE's responsibility to wear FRESH condoms in order to protect himself and his female counterpart."

I absolutely disagree. It is the responsibility of BOTH adults to ensure that he is gloved up. I am not going to place my health in his hands. I have a brain and it is MY responsibility to protect MYSELF.


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We have used rubbers befire when playing, And mostly palyed bareback,,So yeah we are barebackers lol.. Oh and i am sorry there is a bog difrence then fucking with a rubber and fucking without a rubber.. The feeling is 100% difrent..

M.

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Hmm, airbags stay nicely out of the way till needed. And seatbelts don't cover my cock. They are safety devices engineered to not interfere with driving. Not so condoms. They interfere with the pleasure of sex. Now may have disagreed with that point. But proof positive of that point is that most, and this is a really big most, people do not wear condoms with their mates.

If you don't want sex during play to be the very best feeling it can be, that's your choice. But my choice will always be the very best feeling sex possible, whether during play or with my wife.

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When you drive you wear a seat belt and have airbags. Isnt that where condoms would come into play with sex?

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Sweet, most people do chose to drive, but some don't drive and have still jobs, children, and all the rest. Whether you drive and the amount you drive is a choice. I say this living in the very north of Vermont, very rural, with the largest city, Burlington, not a big city, an hour's drive and the nearest major city, Montreal, an hour and a half drive. I know about driving. My comparison choice was not from ignorance.

Your assumption is that sex is not as important as driving. Your assumption. I used driving because it's something most of us do, like sex, and it has a similar level of risk as barebacking. My assumption is that makes it an obvious choice. Some of us consciously make the choice to accept the risk of driving. Others don't think about the risk that driving entails, and prefer to ignore it.

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I guess if my sisterinlaw carries playgirl around in her backpack , buys subscriptions for her girlfriends and tells everyone that homosexuality is wrong ,she isnt a lesbian. :/ Makes as much sense.

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