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Deseos, are you familiar with this thread? Some of us have tried discussing bareback risks rationally. Some here have reacted strongly to barebacking, as if barebackers are evil. Putting words into others' mouths and very negative judgments have been common.

Rationally the risks of barebacking are roughly equivalent to driving. We drive a fair amount in the rural state of Vermont, so that is a risk acceptable to us. We're not interested in changing anyone's practices. We're interested in real communication about real risks rather than emotional reactions and judgments.

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Love the new pics Des!! *whistles*

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Well said Des and OMG we do have to say you are one fine lady....

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I think that people that arent honest with others about not being bare backer's when in fact they state they fuck other than their spouces without condoms in their profiles..are the ones that shouldnt be in this lifestyle. I hope to hell they tell everyone that they fuck they have "lovers" they fuck without condoms but then again maybe they think their "lovers" are only fucking others WITH condoms? Really, do you think yours is the only piece of ass/pussy they are getting? If they use no condoms with YOU why would they if they can find someone else that will let them fuck em without condoms, truth is YOU cant be sure and that makes you a possible carrier of disease.

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You are wasting your energy...good lord how can people be that hard headed! All any of us ask of swingers that play bare are that you fucking tell us before we play. If we ask you if you are bareback swingers you say yes, I am. Fucking A, you want to be a barebacker but you don't want anyone to friggin know about it? Seriously. In my opinion if you feel that you have to hide it perhaps you should not be doing it.


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It's sad to have to explain to Seduction that sex is a mental/physical thing, not purely mental or purely physical, but both together. If you don't think sex with condoms feels differently than bareback, why is it nearly universal to bareback when making love with your own spouse or mate? Does your mate wear condoms all the time or do you ever bareback with him, Seduction? Why?

Women may be less aware of condoms than men, but I know that my wife can tell the difference. Men are more aware of condoms because they actually wear them, they hug tightly, and are plastic between man and the warm wetness of woman. If you can't feel, I am sorry for you, Seduction. I can feel, and there is no feeling like the warm wet of a wonderful woman.

Erectile problems happen to many men, especially as they age. You've demonstrated clearly your insensitivity to this problem and the feelings of men so afflicted. Perhaps the reason you have so much experience with erectile problems is your insensitivity and lack of compassion.

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Oh, yes... I did...

I've a sign on my door that says:

"TO ALL GUYS: I'll quit fucking guys tomorrow... so today is your last chance!"

The problem is that the sign stays on day after day... lol... lol...

Michelle

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...lol...

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That was my last posting here... I feel I made myself abundantly clear... Bye...

Michelle

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This is getting to be utterly boring... and moronic... lol...lol...

The arguments being used are childish... to say the least...

It seems that some here are intent in saying that I practice UNSAFE sex when that is absolutely not the case... If I were a so called 'barebacker' or one who refuses condoms then I would not carry them with me and offer them whenever possible and practicable... nor would I have them at my parties for both women and guys... Furthermore, some think that by wearing a condom they are home safe... lol... lol... They are NOT.

My suggestion is that if one is so afraid and feels apprehensive and uneasy of taking reasonable risks by being in the lifestyle, then one should not be in the lifestyle... You can't have your cake and eat it too...

The lifestyle is not for people who feel they need a totally riskless 'life style.' Sexually transmitted diseases can be propagated by, for example, a woman having oral sex on a guy and then on another woman, or a guy having oral sex on a woman and then on another woman, etc., etc... The possibilities are endless... And doesn't the fact that I've never ever had sexually transmitted diseases say something about my judgement and level of practicing safe sex..? Draw your own conclusions...

In addition to the physical risks there are emotional and related risks... which are much greater and have larger consequences than other type of lifestyle risks... Think about it, if you are one who fears and feels uneasy about life's reasonable risks... You may wish to shun away from any risk taking if that makes you so uncomfortable...

If a couple if so fretful as to dedicate a considerable amount of time and effort to make themselves 'riskless' then you are in the wrong 'life style...' Stay home and enjoy yourselves alone... No need to share yourselves with others and thus put yourselves in jeopardy...

The issue some may have with me is not barebacking, which I don't practice...

The issue some may subconsciously may have is that I'm more liberated than the average swinger in that I play with guys, couples and women both with and without my main partner and that may feel threatening to some... But that is my choice and I still enjoy a strong relationship with my hubby and boyfriends (lovers) as opposed to the more casual people I play with... Some may wish to paint me as a monster with seven heads... lol... lol... In fact that may be a reflection on themselves and/or their life attitudes overall...

Yet in this lifestyle, people are in principle 'OPEN MINDED' and should be tolerant with others' styles and choices... Because we live in a pluralistic society (and more so in this lifestyle) I refrain from imposing my views on others... for example I have many dear friends that are against women's rights such as 'choice' and we are very close friends even when they know that I am pro women's rights such as 'pro-choice.' We lovingly tolerate each others' differing views...

That is the 'heart' of the matter, even when some may not like to admit it... lol... lol...

Michelle

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Ty she we are very honest with people,Guess we were raised like that. That is why we put that in our profile,Just like we also put truth about mixing races, we don't but have nothing against those who do.. And your right honesty is the best way to be in life..

M.

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