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"er, where did I ever say I rely on elected officials to decide when I need to take action ..."

Everytime you boast about your "21 years in the Army" that you're so proud of.

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38 - I'm glad you are comfortable with your beliefs and tactics.... everyone has to take comfort in what they believe. I just don't belive in inflicting my beliefs on others and I allow others to pursue their own life (and learn from their mistakes) as they best see fit. Your way of doing things is good for you.. but not for me. That is what tolerance is all about.... one path is not acceptable for all people.

Debjack - I have served on a jury. I follow societies rules and laws and judge the person by those laws as directed. I try not to make any personal judgements about people. People have their own trials and tribulations to make.... sometimes thats the only way they can learn. I believe all things in life are good... it doesn't matter how crushing the blow... you learn from it and thats the only reason we are here... to learn. Unfortunately, man learns the most from bad situations instead of good ones. Sigh.

As far as the non-violent statement. I'm a violent person if I'm pushed. Unfortunately, I have no fear when it comes to situations that it would behoove me to have fear as self protection. If you try to physically hurt one of my loved ones it doesn't matter how big the person is.... I'm coming after you and I won't stop until you're down. Just because I strive to be a non judgement person doesn't mean I won't protect my loved ones. Strength and courage are especially important under physical threat.... words fortunately can't hurt a person unless YOU allow them to hurt you and that is your own fault and no one elses if that happens.

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I am non violent towards everyone. I would however defend myself if I had to.

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DebJack the differences between you and I are:

that I'm smart enough to know when violence is actually warranted

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that I don't put my faith in elected officials to tell me when violence is warranted.

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"if you think your being "non violent" makes you strong.... "

Where did you ever get the delusion that I'm non violent? I've repeatedly stated that the willingness of a person to use violence when necessary is the only thing that secures his freedom. All anarchists are not peaceniks and pacifists as you errantly think. Violence is to be used when warranted; usually when necessary to repel violence. So while I would seldom advocate the use of force to impose my will onto others, I am not above using violent force if necessary to avoid having others impose their will on me.

And that's my stand on violence.

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"if you think your being "non violent" makes you strong....

then why is it those who have adopted your ideology have a long and storied history of being conquered and/or victims? " because there is an opposite for everything and everyone if me accepting people as people is such a wrong ideal conquer me and make me a victim please.

"the wolf FEEDS on the sheep aka non-violent....the sheepdog protects the sheep from the wolf..." I don't feel threatened or need protecting from gays.

"the sheep always seem to think the wolf is friendly...until the last minute before they die... " So your saying gay people are murders and will kill us...

We aren't talking criminals remember we are talking gay people..

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You know, I guess there are always going to be people in America who scapegoat other people. They're the 10 percent of society who errantly think that just because they were lucky enough to be born whitebread middleclass Americans that everyone else are beneath them. Blacks, hispanics, gays etc. all minorities should be treated like second class citizens because Mr. Whitebread comes first. Please sir, have my spot at the front of the line sir ... and don't beat me masssah!

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We aren't talking about criminals remember that guys.. We are talking about gays.

The reason they have a jury is so that one person doesn't get to use their personal beliefs and prejudices to make the descision. It must be a group agreement.

The world needs opposites to keep balance.

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There is nothing weak about me I assure you. I may be an extremely non violent person and I may be a very accepting person. That doesn't make me weak it makes me strong. I am comfortable enough in my life that the others around me do not affect me. I am strong enough to turn the other cheek when someone is ignorant and rude. I am strong enough not to stoop to their levels of insults and calling them names and degrading them as a person just so I can feel like I am better than them.

Those who feel they must swing their arms and beat their chest and tap out insults are the ones who are weak. They are the ones so unsure that their way is right they have to make sure everyone knows they think it and that the rest of us must be weak or jealous.

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If I can put my 2 cents in here. I honestly don't care what gay people do. Do I like seeing to dudes kissing? Hell no! 2 lesbians kissing? Depends on the Lesbians, but generally yes. I mean this is the "Lifestyle", cpl4party's profile states that his wife is "BI". So he obviously has a double standard. Which invalidates any argument he would have against gay behavior, because female on female sexual activity can be consider gay sexual behavior as well. Nothing can get accomplished from confronting total strangers on how they behave, except an argument and a bad mood. There are many other things worth fighting in this world, why waste time fighting someone else's lifestyle? It's like picking a fight with the ocean. There is nothing to accomplish by confronting two gay guys.

I had a friend back in New Orleans who had a gay friend. We would hang out at his friend's house and chill. His friend would tell us some crazy ass gay stories and fuck with us by throwing on gay porn. We rip on him for being gay and he ripped on us, me for being black, and my friend for being a hetro man whore. We had complete respect for each other and were able to relax and have fun. For me that's what life is all about, put your differences aside and just be people. I don't like the way some gay men behave, especially when they are flaming. But hey I will show them the same basic respect that I would show anyone else, until the do something to fuck that up.

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