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User Details are only visible to members.	We have thought both. We no longer contact people about meeting because we got tired of hardly ever getting a response and the ones we were getting were nos. We were starting to take it too personally. We have been contacted by people that we have thought why are they contacting us for both reasons, out of thier league and out of our league. The ones that we thought we were out of thier league turned out to be fakes. So, it actually turned out that they were out of our league. Carrie
Corpus Christi TX			Username hidden (16506 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	We recently chatted with a couple on SLS and thought OMG they are sooo out of our league. But needless to say we have met and there is some major chemistry...We are getting together with them soon. Talk about a boost in our ego...not that this made us think we can write anyone and get a positive response but it certainly does make us feel good! SO, my point is it doesn't hurt to ask....and it certainly doesn't hurt to pay someone a compliment if you like their pics or something they have said in the forum or their profile. You never know where that may lead! Hugs to all R & K
Muncy PA			Username hidden (2891 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	We've got some new features coming that will help with the out of your league issue too. Can't discuss the feature yet, but it will change the course of history. Well, not really, but it will be pretty cool and should make the entire online experience better, more fun and less stressful. Actually, maybe it will change the world. Too bad it wasn't my idea :-( You'll hear more about it soon.
Coral Springs FL			Username hidden (12055 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Same here, we've looked at quite a few profiles and thought "no way they'd want us", so we don't write. But then some couples we thought were way out of our league have contacted us saying we're hot. One couple we thought was out of our league, is now our best friends as well as our favorite playmates. I guess we're all our own worst critics. And yes Webby, if I got a email from you my first thought would be "What the fuck did I do now?!?!?!"LOL
Bedford PA			Username hidden (5527 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I will answer this in 2 parts: First, this is for the Webmasters. You're both great looking people and after reading different forums posts you have done, you are the type of people, that if I had met you, I would be proud to call friends, if the feelings were the same, I do know there is a lot more to know about a person, but first impressions are important as well. Now about you writing to someone, with you over looking this system, seeing all the people on this system and you picked the people you wrote to, is a compliment to the ones you write to, in its own right. To those are written to, just think about being certified by the Webmaster, and truly shows you are for real. I do believe most "Certified Genuine" are for real, but there could be some cases this might not be true. My final points on this, Webmasters need love too. Second, I agree with xandrianhubby, that it can be very hard to write to someone that you think are out of your league. Like when we were all young, there were always the jocks and cheerleaders, band members and shop, and so on. Sometimes it is based on looks or class, but you feel you're out of there league, so you don't approach them. But have you seen couples that just seem totally out of place, one of them looks great, other looks like they crawled out from under a rock, but they're so happy together. With looking at how happy they are, that is all that is important, so seeing that has thought me, you need to take the risk, talk to those that you feel out of your class. You never know till you talk to them. I still do cross people from times that I think there is no way they would ever want to be with me and being a single male, It happens to me even more, then you can know. I just look for the positive, I will write (only when I like what they say, know that they didn't write no single men, or for just looks if they're profile is very limited, but there choice of what picture they picked caught my eye) them, because if I never wrote, I would of never met the wonderful people I have met already. I now believe everyone is in my league, we are all here in search of something. "Happiness" Final words: Welcome to the League of Happiness.
Scottsdale AZ			Username hidden (126 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Yes - We often don't contact people because they're "out of our league" Granted we seem to have a hard time finding our niche :-)
Queen Creek AZ			Username hidden (24 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I usually don't mail people about getting together. They usually think they are in trouble when I mail them :-(
Coral Springs FL			Username hidden (12055 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	have you ever NOT emailed someone because you thought "their bodies are WAY too perfect- they are out of my league!" or WORSE yet- wondered why someone emailed YOU when you CLEARLY see yourself as waaay "out of THEIR league...?" BE HONEST- most of us have thought one of the other before... do you tend to email people who are "in your league" or do you contact anyone you find arousing- regardless of how their physical appearance compares to yours...? ciao, Xandria
Sterling VA			Username hidden (92 post)

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