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We don't really assign a league to ourselves or who we're looking for I guess. We like all types of people. I guess if we have any specific things, it's a certain level of intelligence and cleanliness. We'll write anyone unless there's something obvious in their profile that indicates we're not for them. I hope most people when receiving an e-mail from someone they consider beneath their league use the very polite "no thank you" feature on this site. Hubby accidently overlooked a statement on a couple's profile recently. They were super into fitness and it's obvious we're not. Although their profile didn't specifically state people as fit as them only, we got back a very lengthy e-mail lecturing us on everything from our pictures to our grammar. That's just not necessary.

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I will e-mail anyone. Why? Because my goal is not sex. The goal of the email must be something else. Liking the pics, forum, comments, profile contents, etc.

Merely because I contact someone doesn't mean I want to have their baby!

I have stopped contacting single men on this site. smile. I contact them because I'm interested in finding a male party buddy.

I find it hilarious. All the single men squealing about lack of interest. They have been uniformly rude. Not following up with dates proposed, not returning emails after starting discussions. I must be out of their league. These are regular guys. I don't approach egomeisters. They hold no interest.

I approach this entire thing as the potential to meet someone fun. That's it. I have bedded beauties and folks of more normal range. We ended up there because I was open to their personality, not their looks. Their ethics, intelligence matter more than age or lack there of.

My final statement is a question. Consider this the next time you think you are out of someone's league. Are they in MY league? Do they meet MY needs, wants, expectations? Are they someone I would want to get to know. Cleans all of this stuff up nicely.

Mischief<---relaxed. Knows it takes about 2 years to find a good partner. No rush.

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Here it is... an oldie ut goodie- worth reviving every now and then for new comers to the forum... :)

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ooops...cut the last post short....we have looked at pics of people and both said "wow"...what an awesome sexy looking couple then just kinda come back to reality .....guess maybe its the fear of rejection

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as for us we have passed over alot of profiles because by either reading them or seeing the pics we figured that the people were "out of our league"

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@Xfrequentc No we're not at war now. We were at war in the Hot Couple thread. LMAO

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league huh.we do not think anyone is out of a league of others. However we do believe and respect preferences. If someone write us that has ot read our rpofile to our wants needs and desires they are not being respectful to us.Which in turn does not obligate us to return the email if we choose not to. Its never out of any league its all about respecting our preferences and your preferences.Those that do not respect ours, can not and will not respect us, they wish to impose their will over ours.

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I will email anyone if I think we are mutually compatible. Does that mean I email people only "in my league"? Well...not really. It means I email people only if it appears that our searches match. Chemistry can really only be determined by meeting eventually, if the signs seem right.

I have known some people built like Barbie Dolls, but with the brains to match...and I don't care WHAT league that is, I have no interest in it. Now, would I email someone whose profile says "Slim women only"? No. I have curves, and that is obviously not compatible with what those people are seeking.

People with very little info on their profiles are much more difficult to judge...so I typically skip them. I refuse to try and determine if I am going to match up with someone with a 3 line profile about how they want Sex with single females and couples. That is completely generic, and it tells me Nothing.

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WHAT!? We're at war right now? (just kidding)

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I like tis topic, and it surprises me that it almost got buried! As far as us we don't think anyone is outta our league, and we don't think we're outta anyone else's league. We do have our likes & dislikes though. I'm pretty sure everyone does. I'm guessing this is why some people only show a titty here, a pussy there, a dick there (Excuse my language, but I'm just being me). My advice is just go for it! You never know what might happen. The most important thing to remember is...There is no way possible you can be everyone's type (NO MATTER HOW GOOD YOU THINK YOU LOOK). We've sent emails to people that didn't even offer a sorry no thanx. My guess is they figured they were outta our league. I think my wife is the hottest woman I've ever been with, but one couple told me she was too thick, and to top it off "we don't do coloreds". WHAT!!!???? Anyway, to those hiding there faces due to a lack of confidence...My advice is let everyone see what you're working with. Me personally I like something to hold, and sqeeze. Mrs. Freaky likes them tall, and chocolate complexioned. That's our preference, but as you can see from our certs we have made exceptions. Good ones too (if you know what I mean). So never be so hard on yourself. You might think you're too fat, but I already told yall what I like. You might think you're too black, but I already told yall what she likes. Plus there are exceptions to every rule! Holla atcha boy! 1ne Kenyattta of FreakyCupple69

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