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User Details are only visible to members.	WHAT!? We're at war right now? (just kidding)
Mayfield PA			Username hidden (910 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	I like tis topic, and it surprises me that it almost got buried! As far as us we don't think anyone is outta our league, and we don't think we're outta anyone else's league. We do have our likes & dislikes though. I'm pretty sure everyone does. I'm guessing this is why some people only show a titty here, a pussy there, a dick there (Excuse my language, but I'm just being me). My advice is just go for it! You never know what might happen. The most important thing to remember is...There is no way possible you can be everyone's type (NO MATTER HOW GOOD YOU THINK YOU LOOK). We've sent emails to people that didn't even offer a sorry no thanx. My guess is they figured they were outta our league. I think my wife is the hottest woman I've ever been with, but one couple told me she was too thick, and to top it off "we don't do coloreds". WHAT!!!???? Anyway, to those hiding there faces due to a lack of confidence...My advice is let everyone see what you're working with. Me personally I like something to hold, and sqeeze. Mrs. Freaky likes them tall, and chocolate complexioned. That's our preference, but as you can see from our certs we have made exceptions. Good ones too (if you know what I mean). So never be so hard on yourself. You might think you're too fat, but I already told yall what I like. You might think you're too black, but I already told yall what she likes. Plus there are exceptions to every rule! Holla atcha boy! 1ne Kenyattta of FreakyCupple69
Newark NJ			Username hidden (121 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Valovers.... thank you for your complement, it made me smile and really think about some things! I have a great family, I will be a grandmother for the 3rd time in a little over a month,my step sons are 22 (daughter in law is 21) and 18, my daughter is 12 going on 30, my hunny is a wonderful sexy man and I am very very happy with all of them!! (most of the time lol lol ) I think just about every woman (not all) I know complains about something ON thier body, not with thier lives..... emotionally I love my life and my family,physically I have to work on loving who I am the way I am.....but since we have been in this lifestyle I have done allot of "comparing" myself to other women, more then I used to,and I think thats one thing we all do. I have some things I absolutely hate on my body and I have been working very very hard for the last 3 years to change them, with little effect which to be honest sucks!! BUT on the other hand I have a few things I like about myself and I will tell people off when they tell me thats what I need to change! Mostly I get told my hair needs to be shorter, and my make-up is a huge huge issue with allot of people.Some say it's too much,some say it's not enough, but then they ask me how do I keep it on all night. It's funny noone ever says anything about my personality, I am shy at first but I open up rather quickly.... I am outgoing, fun,love to talk and if I know you well enough if something happens I will do anything I can to help out you and your family.I always have a ready smile on my face and will try to cheer up someone who doesn't. So again I thank valovers for the comment about Gary and I and I am working on accepting myself for who and what I look like, thanks to allot of the comments posted in this thread....... but there is one I have a reply to..... I do not want to think we were approached by someone because they were "slumming it"....if we are approached I would hope it would be because of who and what we are and that is a real, honest,fun loving, caring couple. I never want to be approached by someone "slumming it"...... that would make me feel like I don't matter at all and I know I do matter even if it's only to my family and true friends!! Thank you for reading my longest post to date :)
Myerstown PA			Username hidden (4988 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	We couldn't have said it better !
Center Valley PA			Username hidden (8503 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	We had one additional thought that occurred to us after we had already posted our previous reply. While you may fear rejection from approaching "beautiful people" because you think you don't compare with them physically, remember that part of what makes swinging appealing is the desire to be with someone DIFFERENT FROM the spouse or partner that you are with all the time. Most people really enjoy experiencing people of different sizes, shapes, skin colors, hair colors and styles, etc. Mrs. valovers703 is only 5'3", and has very dark, almost black hair in a fairly short hairstyle. She is brown-eyed and very curvy, both in the bust and hips. Now, would I want to be with a woman just like HER? Well, yes,. .but that's because I'm such a slut! LOL But I ALSO would love to experience a redhead, a woman with long beautiful flowing hair, and a tall, willowy (and not necessarily very well-endowed) blonde!!! Viva la difference! So don't be mistaken that "beautiful people" are looking only for couples just like themselves. They may very well, in fact, be looking for something DIFFERENT just for the variety!
South Riding VA			Username hidden (8158 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	creamycommotions wrote: <<I am not confortable with myself enough to email someone in hope that they will like what they see and want to meet so alot of the time we or I will see a profile and want to get to know them and I wont email them because I think they won't be intrested...>> Wow, creamy, you are really underrating yourself and your husband. I just looked at your profile and the two of you are a very attractive couple who should do very well finding interested playmates. This is the husband writing, so here's a perspective from a man past the age of 50. I have met very few women past 30 in my life who are happy with how they look. It amazes me how truly sexy, pretty women can go on and on about what's WRONG with their bodies! Here's another hint - most men are noticing what's RIGHT with you, not what's WRONG! LOL My all-time favorite cartoon: A man and a woman are naked and standing in front of a full length mirror. He is a bald guy with a huge beer gut. She is an absolute knockout! In the mirror, he sees Tarzan, and she sees an old hag! LOL Ain't it the truth? Ladies, please try to FEEL as sexy as you LOOK to us guys. We are all too thrilled just to have YOU let us be with you! Hugs, and may your lifestyle experiences do great things for your self-image.
South Riding VA			Username hidden (8158 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	This is Trish.... I have a very very hard time emailing people on this site and 2 others we belong to because of the out of thier league issue.... we are both shy until we get to know someone, I do not know how to go up to someone and start a conversation, I am not confortable with myself enough to email someone in hope that they will like what they see and want to meet so alot of the time we or I will see a profile and want to get to know them and I wont email them because I think they won't be intrested.... guess after reading this topic I will bite the bullet and email more people....taking deep breaths here ....
Myerstown PA			Username hidden (4988 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Thank you, Patricia was born and raised in your neck of the woods. She would love to hear that you said that. Mark
Parker AZ			Username hidden (85 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	@avcouplesxtc VERY well written!!!
Pittsburgh PA			Username hidden (366 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Part 2 of this topic Now this brings us to our situation. I can say this, my wife is a hottie MILF. I know I am the luckiest man on the face of the earth. Hell guys tell me this to my face when they meet and actually talk and get to know my wife. I am proud of that. I am no Ken, but I do take care of myself and I take pride in my appearance. But lets be honest, the big reason we get any attention is because of her and those pix. In the same since those pix are a curse. It has been a long dilemma post the pix or just put a G rated pic up. We believe in letting people know up front that we love to play in public and my wife is an exhibitionist and I am a voyeur. We also want to let people have an idea of what kind of fun we like to have sexually. Then there is the final reason. We want people to know that we are for real and not posers who say they are a couple who wants to meet others and play like adults. We all know how many guys there are out there that say they are a couple and are really just guys wanting to meet girls using that as a cover. With us you know were real. The down side to those pix is that we look like pros. We are hardly pros. In the 7 yrs or so that we have been actually into the lifestyle we have been intimate with 5 couples we have met. We have been to 2 home parties and the Freedom Acres 3 times, and LA Couples once. So were hardly pros. We have had a lot of hit and miss meetings though. And out of those 5 couples only 1 at this time turned out to be a couple that we became friends with. The others were out of lust and it didn't work out in the end. That's why we believe in friends first. The other part of the downside is that it looks like Patricia puts out for anyone. Well to be honest she has had an adult site for several years and the majority of the XXX pix are from over several years ago. She had a problem with not wanting to be a tease and she had a hard time saying no to guys especially once they touched her. She is now, very selective and safe when it cums to sex. She has the site now for extra incum and it is a hobby. It's all smoke and mirrors, just like in the magazines. This brings us to the last point. These pix may make it look like she is unobtainable and even unapproachable. We actually were told this one time at a greet and meet. A couple said that they finally had the nerve to approach us and talk to us. They thought that Patricia was "out of their league" and unapproachable based on the pix. That floored us. She is just the opposite. She is a soccer mom who is a MILF and that is that. After they talked to us and they got to know her they found that not only was she down to earth and just a normal person, she was fun and easy to talk to. We all found that we had a lot in common and that we had a connection. We are good friends with them and after 3 weeks we are planning on a trip to FA. (It took 3 weeks due to scheduling and having the ladies stars and moons line up lol, but it will be worth the wait). So don't judge a book by its cover. Don't let a possible friendship go by without making an attempt to at least see if there is a connection. Mark
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