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Created by: jk4fun63 Original Starting post for this thread:
this question comes from reading numerous posts and talking with couples in the lifestyle for a few years now. i find it comical to hear some couples talk about catching single guys who are cheating. it is so funny to listen to the lengths they will go to, and the stories they tell of the tests they use to root these cheaters out. it's as if they are part of an elite force of lifestyle detectives. it's almost an obsession for some, and i can't help it, that's just funny to me. now, i've been reading these forums long enough to know that some of you (i could probably name a few of the "regulars") are already getting the rope out to hang me, so please let me say two things. 1. i do not think being unfaithful is funny, so let's not waste time twisting it that direction. 2. we would never, EVER play with anyone, male or female, we knew was cheating. having said that, i'd love for someone to explain to me why it is my responsibility to investigate whether or not this guy is being faithful in his relationship, be it a wife, girlfriend, or whatever. if he is endangering that relationship, that's on him, not us. what am i missing?

Created by: jk4fun63
Original Starting post for this thread:

this question comes from reading numerous posts and talking with couples in the lifestyle for a few years now.

i find it comical to hear some couples talk about catching single guys who are cheating.  it is so funny to listen to the lengths they will go to, and the stories they tell of the tests they use to root these cheaters out.  it's as if they are part of an elite force of lifestyle detectives.  it's almost an obsession for some, and i can't help it, that's just funny to me.  

now, i've been reading these forums long enough to know that some of you (i could probably name a few of the "regulars") are already getting the rope out to hang me, so please let me say two things.  
1.  i do not think being unfaithful is funny, so let's not waste time twisting it that direction.  
2.  we would never, EVER play with anyone, male or female, we knew was cheating. 

having said that, i'd love for someone to explain to me why it is my responsibility to investigate whether or not this guy is being faithful in his relationship, be it a wife, girlfriend, or whatever.  if he is endangering that relationship, that's on him, not us.  

what am i missing?

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User Details are only visible to members.	"I didn't realize what FJ was stating before." Whoaaaa Heat! I was doing nothing more that throwing some humor, not taking any sides. I think AFT knew it was nothing more than a little ribbing, don't pull me in. This bickering is so far off topic it is silly and I want no part of it.
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