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TOPIC: friends
Created by: bigstorm64
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people that are friends.why are they your friends and why are you friends with them.what makes good friends.can you be friends with the opposite sex without sex being involed....BS

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there are some people we've met that we always say and mean, "if we never had sex w/each other again (or even the first time), we would still be good friends." That's a swing friend.

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MOST of my best friends over the years have been dudes. I only the last handful of years have become closer friends with a few women. I try to see my friends realistically, but I still love them unconditionally, warts and all. {grin}

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I agree Bobby, it is a challenge. And to a degree, you DO have to proceed with caution. To me, there are certain things you should discuss with your spouse. If you are opening your heart and soul to another person...to me, you should ask yourself why you are not doing this with your spouse. And if you cannot, you should ask yourself why you cannot. My friend is what a call a "gay straight man". I do not mean that in a demeaning way, I mean he and I talk about shit girls usually talk about haha. Like, gossip about this and that, history, architecture, things my husband simply is not interested in. Jay could give a shit about history or architecture. My friend is an architect. So it works. And I don't really trust many women at all....so it works. But we do proceed with caution.


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for me friend and sex don't go together. I don't believe in friendship with a woman. the next couple days i go with my friend on fishing but it's a man thing. If i go with some femail on boat probably i bring a bottle of wine and just think how to put my fish inside...

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To me, a friend is someone I can trust. I am a naturally non trusting person, and I have to know you well in order for me to be able to open up to you. Everyone else just gets the PR side. My best friend is a guy I met here on sls as a single man, and he has been my bff for 6 years. From our first email it was like CLICK and it was that one you talk with and you feel like you've known them all your life. We have had ups and downs, we went for a few months sans talking which almost killed us both. At point yes, he fell in love with me. Its very hard for a man and woman to be as close as we are without it almost getting very confusing. We had a serious come to Jesus and he has now been in a committed relationship for 4 years. Did I like her coming in and being his main person? Not for a minute...but it was something I had to adjust to because he has to be loved like all of us do, and she has to be his main priority. But it does bother me to an extent lol. Most of my friends that I feel are my inner circle, I have gone through ups and downs. Trust to me is core. But, I am the one that knows lots and lots of people, but I have few friends. I have acquaintences, but a tiny group of trusted people. But thats the way I like it. Most of my female friends are like me, they are more "guy girls" vs. "girl girls". That makes sense to me haha. It is hard though, men and women being friends without chemistry building.


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Or just pass out.

Chesapeake VA
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Yeah, they'll probably pass them out, too

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Depends.

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Viagra will be handed out like Halloween candy?

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By the time you young fellas are 90, probably not.

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