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TOPIC: What is your best or worst newbie story
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our first experience was with a nice couple who stayed our friends until now. We do not speak to them much anymore because they are very active in the ls and all of their friends are pretty active in it, and we aren't...but they are great people. It was ummm....awkward. First thing, at that time they had a no kissing on the mouth rule. And, for the record, I did adhere to this. However, he told me after that she was becoming upset with me because I was kissing him everywhere else but on his lips. I mean, they said no kissing on the MOUTH. Your nipples aren't attached to your mouth. Maybe they are in Austin? I dunno LOL. Had fun, he was much too passive for me though. Fuck me. But don't pet me, I'm not a cat LOL.

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SW, if you don't mind me saying so, you look very hot in that new picture.

Sophia

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Our very experiences were single males and we were very lucky. They were all great. Our first couple experience was a disaster. The fella of the other couple was very serious. We met them for dinner and he barely cracked a smile even at our best lines. We thought maybe they were just nervous even though they had experience so we agreed to meet again.

Big mistake. Mr. SeriousFrowner turns into Mr.Intense once we hit the bedroom. I went to brush my teeth and came back in 90secs. to find him totally naked and waiting for me. It went downhill from there with him not saying one single word to me. He really just wanted a blow-up doll and not an active partner. Mr. Cincy and the wife had a good time but robot sex with no give and take and no chatting or laughing is not my cup of tea. We wrapped things up quickly and I vowed to go back to single men. We eventually found a few couples that worked out.

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Oh. And thanks. : )


 
 
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It is. I needed to update because I am going the opposite direction from you - gaining weight. If like to lose it, but at least I gain proportionally. ; )


 
 
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SW is that a new picture of you? Very nice.

Sophia

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This is more my first non-experience: my husband and I were walking along the Riverwalk in San Antonio and he brought up bringing another man into the mix because when an acquaintance developed a crush on me it had really reved-up our sex life. About two minutes later, we were in a bar. I sat down next to a gentleman and started chatting while he ordered drinks.

About 15 minutes later, my husband went to the bathroom and the other man followed him. My husband spoke to me when they sauntered back to the bar. The guy was a swinger and had experience in the lifestyle with his ex-wife but was now recently divorced. He could show us around town (and a little more if we were up to it.)

We had a great time at the next bar. He even came back to the hotel room, but I just wasn't sure. This was such a new concept for me. My husband pulled my top down exposing my breasts. I was shocked and gasped, covering myself. The guy politely, but firmly stated that if I wasn't 100% into it, than it was a no-go - that made me want to jump his bones, but I just was t ready to pull the trigger.

We saw him again, but once again, I felt too awkward to move forward. He was a consummate gentleman. Darn - I totally understand why given our experience, but if he had been a little more aggressive, we might have had a different ending.


 
 
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Sorry Ernesto is not there anymore!! Hope he left of his own accord..... No sensual massages!! Might make us think twice about going back to RoofTop. The place is still a dump from what I hear......we always liked the Crowne Plaza in Hollywood, right on the intracoastal...... Yes! That is my man standing next to the shark at one of the beach stores.

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Our very first experience in the lifestyle was one of those jump in the deep end type of things. I am the type of person that needs to know if this is something we are going to be able to do without thinking about it for 6 months then 'get to know' someone for another 6 months and then at the time of actually 'doing' it find out this isn't what we wanted to do.

So we find this couple to meet for dinner. They lied about their ages, he was one of those guys that had been in the lifestyle for 27 and knows everything. He was an ass and talked about how he knows how to please the ladies.

Well, hubby and I were more at ease about the whole thing than they were. It was great for us, we were turned on by the other playing. If we could have other partners it would have been an incredible experience. However, the ass and the insecure kinda was a buzz kill, but otherwise, we knew this was what we wanted to do.

Sophia

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We actually saw him there last March although he wasn't working there. He has opened his own massage business in Hallandale Beach. Will have to have him work on Mrs. nit sometime.

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