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TOPIC: What are the things you can see or not see in a profile which will make you automatically decide not to swing with someone Also what can you see which makes you want to
Created by: RRNMcouple4u
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For us, we have several turn offs and quite a few turn-ons. Our particular turn-offs are bi males, bad photos, profiles with few to no pictures, and profiles with no information. Our turn-ons are profiles with a sense of humor, clear pictures, and information about the couple's likes and dislikes. What do you like and dislike?

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How about the pictures taken in a rest room with all the equipment in the background or pictures taken in a messy area. Really sexy aren't they makes you want to rush out and meet them right away.

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How about 100 photos in the same outfit different poses? Immediate turn off here.

Rumson NJ
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Turn Offs: "Sorry, this member has chosen to have their profile hidden from Single Males" "People of Walmart" type pics.

Turn ons: Sexy smile pics Sexy body pics Sexy attitude in profile

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Stained clothes....how about the stained furniture they are sitting on in the profile pic. Yum.

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Things in profiles that turn me off:

Messy backgrounds. People who have face pictures but don't smile in them. Close up of cocks and vaginas Men's butt photos, I find those quite feminine, even if the butt is nice and firm. Missing teeth. Stained clothes.

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I just got an email from a couple asking me if I was 'into younger". I went to see their profile, both are very young...much younger than the age cutoff on my profile, but that wasn't the turn-off. She is listed as "Bi-Curious" even though my profile says I'm not interested in bi-curious women (only Bi) but that wasn't the turn-off. The turn-off was the part of the profile that says they are both engaged, to different people, and looking to have their first threesome before they tied the knot (to their respective partners)

--oh, please let me climb aboard the drama express!

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Free members with no pictures and very little info usually means they're fake. They can be free members and that's fine with me but it's pretty easy to upload a few pictures on here even if they're G-rated . The other way to turn people off is when there's only a couple of close up shots of one body part and nothing else !!!!

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Internet gold!

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I like a brief profile with pics that indicate your interest other than getting between my thighs or whatever. The people who talk about what they will or not pay for is a turn off. I think this can be discussed if we ever speak. I suppose they've been burned by free loaders which is a huge turn off. Let me ask for the "dick" shot. It's not the first thing I'd like to see....oh, yeah, good teeth are a turn on.

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This one isn't so much what's in a profile but what someone does. You see a couple signed up for an event you are attending so you read their profile.. interesting.. might be nice to meet them.

Out of boredom you check out the other events going on and you notice.. they are signed up for 2 or 3 different events the same night.

WTF? ~ yes, we could write them and ask but signing up for multiple events the same night is outright flaky.

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TOPIC: What are the things you can see or not see in a profile which will make you automatically decide not to swing with someone Also what can you see which makes you want to