What age do you want: Swingers Discussion 428341021

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User Details are only visible to members.	Hey there everyone! another very interesting topic indeed!!! Just to touch on a few topics discussed here....Valovers, love what you said about having a mental connection and a physical attraction....so so very true! Can't agree with you more! If only it weren't so far and few between......when you find that, it is really really a special thing indeed! ( got to admit though, has happened to me rarely!.....too damn fickle i guess! lol!---but i guess i am just a true old fashioned romantic, maybe....) and as far as the BBW thing.....i am a bigger lady, i am beautiful, and i am most definately a woman......so i guess the description fits! lol! But as far as using that term too much i can relate to that.......it can be "overused" as many a terminology has been.......and i agree with someone else on here....i have seen 25 year olds that look alot older than us and 40 somethings that look a hell of alot better than they did at 20....so it just depends.....and i'm not talking just in this lifestyle, i'm talking just in general.....and i know we are not shallow people, we are very down to earth folks, but i guess if that statement makes us shallow, then so be it i guess......just OUR observations and opinions! Ms. Wicked
Burbank CA			Username hidden (169 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	JandC...you are careful not to assume that 20 somethings arent mature, but you also said you prefer a couple who has been together a while. But you make the assumption that if they are in their 40s they may have been together awhile, but really they could have just met last year and someone young could have more than 2 years together. RRNM...I agree about the BBW term. I've seen bigger ladies that are beautlful, and we would play with them, but every big girl uses that term and it has lost it's meaning to us. Some 40 year olds look much better than some 20 year olds do. Destin...Us whippersnappers compared to you old foggies are known for experimenting more. I don't know if that's the case for all whippersnappers but it's a start. Plus why wait 20 years. Still we might think that relationships/marriage are different that old foggies, but we also think about sex more. Personally I dont like the idea of "dating" another couple. Sure hanging out is fun and being friends is cool, but damn it, I want to fuck. Thrill...I would like a body type preference search as well , but sometimes people just dont list their type accuratly. Some couples will list themselves better than they are, and some will list themselves worse. Some couples will list themselves accuratly but the other couple will not know what a (insert body type) actually is.
Valencia CA			Username hidden (71 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	OH Carla...you are after our hearts on this one..."Couples that have been together for just a year or 2...should still be looking to find each other. JUST MY OPINION....(Carla) " Always wondered WHY they get married and decide to join the Lifestyle before having a solid relationship...Age does factor into it too...so WHY are the under 30 so active now in the Lifestyle? We think one of the key reasons is to explore their Bi side or continue it, the other is they think of relationships and marriage differently than us old foggies do...lol
Destin FL			Username hidden (14562 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	This may sound shallow, but to be completely honest, it depends on how well they've taken care of themselves. Some 40 year olds look 60 and some look 29 or 35. We keep our age range wider because it's about connection and attraction. On SLS I've seen 50 year olds who are hot, and 26 year olds who are NOT. So, just like everything else, it's more an issue of attractiveness than age. I also don't list a weight range or requirement because I've seen some very beautiful heavy girls in my life, and I don't want to scare them off. That said, my opinion on Big Beautiful Women is that there is "beautiful" in the title and some people gloss over that and use that to just refer to big girls. Personally BBW is a title I mentally grant to those girls who have that pizazz even when they're heavy. I can't say we've really established a hard age limit but we make our decisions based on attractiveness and personality. Does that make us shallow?
Rio Rancho NM			Username hidden (80 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	We prefer people NOT younger than 30---as we are not interested in playing with couples 20 something. Our experience is that maturity is part of the attraction. Not saying you can not be mature at 20 something but we prefer couples that have been together for a long time and looking for the same things we are in our relationship. My opinion of this lifestyle is those couples that have been together and in love for a long time and are looking to expand their lives in all ways. Couples that have been together for just a year or 2...should still be looking to find each other. JUST MY OPINION....(Carla)
Las Vegas NV			Username hidden (392 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	We have listed our preferred age range as 45-70, which is 12 years younger than we are to 12 years older than we are. But those numbers are there merely to indicate that we think people in that age range are MOST LIKELY to be compatible with us. We recognize that it's the people and their personalities that matter most. We won't initiate a contact with anyone on SLS outside that age range just because it's more likely that we will find a compatible couple within that age range. But if someone outside that age range initiates a contact with US, we'll certainly consider them on the same basis as we would anyone else. If we run into you at a party or club and we all click, we aren't going to "card" you. Well, at least not until AFTER we fuck you! LOL!!! Well, there is an exception - we might card you if we're not sure you're of legal age! :-) Happy swinging, everyone. If you're making a mental connection and a physical attraction exists, don't worry about someone's age.
South Riding VA			Username hidden (8158 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	This discussion has been useful to us. We went back to our profile and narrowed our age range a bit, but then added a small "disclaimer" in the text.
Pittsburgh PA			Username hidden (1153 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Age......................................... We all have one Jackie
Bedford PA			Username hidden (5527 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	We are more 35+ but hey convince us otherwise...lots of difference in how people age so the upper age would depend on individual couples appearance and personalities.
Destin FL			Username hidden (14562 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Hi! We are pretty open about the ages of people we play with, however, i think our profile states 20-45, i believe, but if we happened to meet a couple that is a bit older than that, that we find cool, we wouldn't neccessarily rule anything out.....we generally get along with people our own age group and younger, but attitude and attraction are primary. However the femme half of us doesn't like men that could be her father.....not for her! Otherwise, as long as you are young in mind and attitude (and style is a definate plus!) anything goes!
Burbank CA			Username hidden (169 post)

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