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TOPIC: What Default Pic Do You Prefer to See

Created by: valovers703 Original Starting post for this thread:
I know that a lot of people have said they don't like to see a crotch shot for a default pic, but there are still lots of other options. For example, though we are a couple and have pictures of us both, separately and together, on our profile, I often wonder which picture to use as a default pic. Since Mrs. Valovers almost never gets online, all posts are from ME. So should I post a picture of me, the one who posts the comments, or of us both? In the meantime, I just keep changing the default pic around at least once a day, sometimes twice, if only for variety. When you see a Forum post from half of a couple, would you rather see the default pic be of the one posting, or of the couple?

Created by: valovers703
Original Starting post for this thread:

I know that a lot of people have said they don't like to see a crotch shot for a default pic, but there are still lots of other options.

For example, though we are a couple and have pictures of us both, separately and together, on our profile, I often wonder which picture to use as a default pic.  

Since Mrs. Valovers almost never gets online, all posts are from ME.  So should I post a picture of me, the one who posts the comments, or of us both?

In the meantime, I just keep changing the default pic around at least once a day, sometimes twice, if only for variety.

When you see a Forum post from half of a couple, would you rather see the default pic be of the one posting, or of the couple?

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User Details are only visible to members.	Everything has consequences. Some people like spontaneity. It seems you just found one...lol.
Jennings LA			Username hidden (771 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	The thing that gets our attention best is faces. We like to see faces even if they're disguised a little and we do like if the profile contains full length shots of both people. It's a bit tough sometimes for the wife when couples post pics of only the female, with sometimes just one crotch shot of the male. She doesn't work that way and would rather see anything but just the crotch. Especially if it's flash illuminated- washed out blue purple cocks don't interest her one bit. I haven't posted nudes because we both have everything which is required. I'm pretty well hung, but I prefer to leave that as a nice surprise for whomever we hang out with. Nothing's better than meeting and exceeding peoples' expectations. Plus, some guys who browse SLS (as part of a couple) won't contact people who are even a little larger than they are, so I'd rather not post pictures that would be a turnoff for them. Really it's irrelevant since we shop for personality, not parts, and we look for the same in others. You can get plastic "parts" at the adult bookstore. They don't come with fun, witty, attractive people attached to them, though. Nate
Rio Rancho NM			Username hidden (80 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	You walked right into it this time, Poly. Now he's going to ask you to keep on lowering your head!
South Riding VA			Username hidden (8158 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	The default pic is in most cases just ONE of the pictures posted on a profile, if they have pictures at all. So if you think you might be interested in someone, you're going to look at their profile anyway, aren't you? In which case, you will of course look at ALL of their pictures, wouldn't you? That means you should be able to see both halves of a couple and see how they carry their weight. It still begs the question, "what's the best default pic?" Especially when, like in our case, just one of us does 99.99% of the posting in the Forum. I try for a tradeoff between showing us both, showing the one who is posting (me), and showing the one with the most "eye appeal" (NOT me!). Finding no definitive answer that would suit a large majority of you, I guess I'll just continue changing the default pic whenever I think it's time to show a different one.
South Riding VA			Username hidden (8158 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	If one of the members of a couple is posting a message in the Forum, ideally I would want the default picture to be a facial of the person posting. That's especially the case if one gets involved in a substantive discussion of any kind; in that case you really appreciate seeing the face of the person you are having the discussion with. Obviously I am in no position to "demand" that others post their faces, considering that this one guy has chosen his wife derriere as our "face" to the larger SLS community! Mr. Content PS: If I'm just browsing profiles, then I don't care which picture they select as the default. The default is just the profile's bait to entice me to click them and look at their profile, including their other pictures. The only opinion I have on how I should be enticed would be that the default picture should be real, and not too misleading (it will always be "a little" misleading...and that's ok).
Pittsburgh PA			Username hidden (1153 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	We don't have any default pic, because of pictures being printed out and passed around the work place. We used to have one of the two of us with our eyes blocked out, but had to take that one off too in "fear" that someone from work might recognize me and try to get one of us to open our private pics to them. Some may say that they are here for the same reason, but where I work, that is not always the case. Anyways, we prefer(at least I do)lol face pics of both for the default pic. The eyes always get me lol!
Piedmont SC			Username hidden (273 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	We actually prefer the pictures that show the couple out and about in everyday life doing things they enjoy.
Jennings LA			Username hidden (771 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	We do not like to see crotch shots as defalt HOWEVER we think very explict pics can be put on profiles with class and respect.We have pg,full body nudes as well as what we call intercourse pics we like to see what we are getting into before we meet couples so we do not have private pics if you would like take a look at our profile to see how we put our pics up be our guest... Alina
Naples FL			Username hidden (229 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	Well, I prefer G rated in general, don't really care either way if it's the female or the male or the couple. But, when I look at the profile I'd like to see all parties of the couple and not just x-rated. I have my pic as the default right now, but have had the couple picture as well. Need to get new pictures. -S
Sherwood Park Canada			Username hidden (46 post)

User Details are only visible to members.	The ones I prefer would have to be funlovin69 and Poly. I don't think that was they direction you were going with the question. That's what popped into this empty head though.
Jennings LA			Username hidden (771 post)

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