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A turn off for me is when we're at a Sunday hotel swing party. And we witness the loss of the Green Bay Packers on TV. Ugh !

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We ran into a good looking couple 2 weeks ago. My wife was really interested. Then we noticed that every comment to come out of his mouth was a reference to his huge cock. Comparing it to girth of soda cans, and a fore-arm, and length of this and that. Over and over. Wasn't long before my wife was pretty interested in seeing IT, but completely lost interest in him. I lost interest in being around them altogether.

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A huge turn off for me is that presumption of superiority that some people exude. It can come from both sexes and is based on their pride in their age, fitness, and presumed attractiveness.

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*Angry hot head men who are mean spirited and who have such insecurity that they are bullies.*

I will add to the above, condescending, jaded and passive aggressive. Huge turn off, particularly if the guy has this attitude that women should be seen but not heard. I chew assholes like this as a snack or I simply ignore them and watch them wallow in the anger that consumes them.

**Confidence? Yes. Arrogance and anger and tantrums. no.**

Arrogance to some extent is alright, cockiness is not.

**People who have to be "on" all the time, as in the center of attention at all costs, to the point of being obnoxious. **

Not a turn off, but you know me, I'm a people watcher, I enjoy watching people like that ;).

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Angry hot head men who are mean spirited and who have such insecurity that they are bullies.

Confidence? Yes. Arrogance and anger and tantrums. no.

People who have to be "on" all the time, as in the center of attention at all costs, to the point of being obnoxious.

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People who think they are gods gift to the universe and you should be thankful they even acknowledge your existence.

The sad part is that used to be a huge turn on for me. Chasing something to the ends of the earth just to say I conquered it. I let it consume me like Ahab. I thought that if I could just break through that icy exterior I'd find a heart of gold...

Truth be told, there's just more ice below the ice and there isn't much more than that the deeper you go.

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Besides the obvious, like nasty teeth, BO, dirty clothes, etc.

For me, I find "difficult" women to be a big turn off. If I have to work like mad to get you to make eye contact with me, I give up in a hurry. If you are interested in me but play hard to get, you won't get "got".

I also cannot stand arrogance. Confidence is not the same thing. Arrogant women who act like they're doing me some kind of favor by even talking to me - I can't stand it.

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