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Just 5 minutes ago, SLS's Twitter account plugged a blog post written by the same guy in July, where he contradicts his statements about how relationships need jealousy and the value of keeping your escapades secretive:

"In open relationships, jealousy represents something that is wrong and not going on as intended. It is treated as any other negative energy that needs to be resolved. This is very possible as empathy is the main development trait needed in open relationship.....

There are many advantages as it creates an open environment that eliminates the negative effects of jealousy, dishonesty and secrets. The ability to comfortably allow a partner to share happiness and love with other people is an expression of empathy. This freedom is the ultimate solution to broken promises and an alternative to cheating. Monogamy is not a hard wired component of humans. It is an imposed boundary that arouses societal expectations which has resulted in pain and suffering.

{the last paragraph is probably the most ridiculous - gotta plug SLS while we're at it....}

The thought of a partner having relationships with other people causes severe distress and even death at worst cases in monogamous relationships. However, there exist those who find happiness in having one partner which is very accepted. The boundaries are however not just, considering that ultimate happiness is what each individual seeks while on earth. There is no need to go through the lies, spite and distress of a painful monogamous relationship if you feel an open one is what suites you. The societal expectations are very important but should not overtake personal happiness and feelings which is the only thing you are overly sure about. If one decides to join the lifestyle they can always visit SwingLifeStyle which is an open marriage and swingers dating website at open relationships."

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I just now read a few of those blogs mentioned by VA. Not sure which is worse, the substance or the writing style. Either way, the fact that this site thinks the articles worthy of anything but the trashcan, speaks volumes.

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Author said, "The women will be participating in sex with the concept of their husbands"

I know my hubby would love to be a hologram, or conceptual art work.

If he isn't that already....cue Twilight Zone music.

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i agree that the forums are not here for anyone to dictate set protocols, but i do think it's a place where people should feel comfortable asking questions about things they have little or no experience with.

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That is why we left the public BDSM scene. Every Joe Bologna was an *expert* and heaven forbid you didn't conform. ..you were labeled dangerous. Who are these self proclaimed SMEs?

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Agreed; Fun is a hack.

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umm that last post sounded a bit like Z_krewe. Fun has been hacked!

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"That's me mocking Fun Ahoy."

Little man can't even hold my joke strap when it comes to running a mock

#P-brain

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A man managed to behead himself in a spectacularly gruesome suicide in the Bronx Monday.

Tomas Rivera, 51, of upstate Port Jervis, tied a chain from his head to a pole, then hit the gas on his 2005 Honda CRV in Hunts Point, cops said. He gunned it at 9:35 a.m., slamming into a parked vehicle on Longfellow Ave. near Randall Ave., police said.

He died at the scene.

[I like the way they added that. I was hoping maybe he was OK]

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I'm not too excited about people pumping the muggles' heads full of ridiculous crap.

Although maybe it's all part of a grand strategy to keep them in the dark...

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