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BLT ,

If you do not want people to comment, question or discuss your comments I'd suggest you refrain from posting them. I have no need to make you look like anything. You've done a great job of establishing where you stand when it comes to who pays for what all by yourself. If others I perceive you as a freeloader or cheap I don't need to take responsibility for it. Peoples perceptions manifest on of their own accord based on what they see, read or hear. Carry on with the full knowledge that anything anyone posts is opened to discussion and the poster has zero control over what course the conversation takes.

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Interest does not equate "wanting to fuck". However, I would not make contact to "hang out" with someone that I felt I had no chance of establishing chemistry with.

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All I can say is WTF!

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Sav: I wasn't interested in him if you read the post. It was an open-ended invite just to hang out if he was in my area. It wasn't a fuck date. Your constant attempt to make me appear cheap or a freeloader is to no avail. Don't you have someone else to stalk?

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What happened to the theory of those who invite pay? Funny how that went by the wayside, if the same gentlemen first wrote to you and invited you to hang out there is zero doubt, based on everything you professed in previous conversation that he would have ben expected to pay. Thanks for clarifying how that works.

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Sav: He's single and I am single so we would probably go dutch to a LS club and I am able to host at my place. We all know I don't pay nor split the cost of a room, especially with couples. That's the beauty of being a unicorn.

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So riddle me this had he taken you up on your offer would the evening be at YOUR expense?

Inquiring minds want to know....

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Why did I not know that my post would be thoroughly dissected? I am not looking to fuck everybody I communicate with. I am single and it's nice to have a "buddy" on occasion to go out with instead of going alone. You don't have to be Mother Theresa to do that. That's why I hate the expression that we are all here for the same thing. We definitely are not!

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I gotta agree. If I were a single guy and some single girl from the other side of the country was writing without giving a very specific reason (such as - I see you are into cycling. Can I ask you a few questions?) I could do nothing else but assume there is some interest there. To go off on him because he assumed so seems kinda loco to me.

While most "no thanks" emails go unanswered, I never fret about a short "thanks for replying" email, however. Only once did I feel obligated to answer a "why not" inquiry, because we had a small email history before in which we at least expressed some degree of interest in seeing more, and our perceived change in attitude prompted an "we thought you guys were interested" email. No problem. We did reply with "just a call we made. Nothing personal. Good luck."

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"I gave a shout out to a stupid ass SM a zillion miles away from me who posted that he was looking for a SF to hang out with possibly travel, etc. In all honesty, I was in no way attracted to him. I send him a brief note stating that if he's ever in Florida, since he professes to be this traveler and just about everyone comes to Florida at some point, he responds like I am trying to hit his ass up with something about there a lot of swingers in Florida so why am I hitting him up. Thankfully, I never heard from him again. He assumed, I guess, that I was interested in him sexually. I NEVER troll for dick. I don't have to...LOL"

So let me get this straight. You found a single guys profile, had zero attraction for him but sent him an email suggesting if he ever came to Florida.............? Now you're insulted because he wasn't interested and he ASSUMED you were? I can see where someone would be confused as to your interest when he lives a zillion miles away and you send him an invite to "hang out" if he is ever in Florida. For the life of me I can't see why you'd bother to write to him at all if you had zero interest. Simply doesn't make sense unless your Mother Theresa and on this site looking for new charities to sponsor.

I agree with VA about those types of emails, generally there is a motive behind the niceties . People usually DO expect something in return . If you don't write back to thank them you're a bitch and if you do write back they have accomplished their mission in starting a conversation that gets awkward very quickly when you have zero interest.

I personally hate sending a thanks but no thanks email only to get another email from that person thanking me for letting them know. When I politely say NO THANKS I do not want, need or expect to ever hear from you again.

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