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Well starting a contact with a compliment is not the worst approach for opening contact. I wouldn't take that as someone being manipulative since we are all really here to make connections for the specific purpose of sex. Well some of us, I think a lot are here for .. well I don't know what they are here for.

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There is nothing wrong with a simple heartfelt compliment. It is just that it is often used as a point of manipulation to reel people in. Just ask yourself your motive. Are you complimenting to get a response and start an interaction or did you just want to bring a smile to their face.

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I didn't reply with a nastygram. I just tossed the email.

Every SINGLE TIME we have answered a compliment with a thank you, it has been answered back with them hoping to meet us, taking it as a sign of interest. So now we never answer them.

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Ok then...lesson learned...no complimenting anyone I have no intention of meeting.

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** copy and paste** If I see a pair of boobs that I like or a gorgeous FF physique, I'll compliment and let them know clearly that I wasn't hitting on them.

I call them retired pecks, my wife calls them man boobs or moobs for short.

"The FF :)

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Rdy: Yes, it was in today's threads. I give a lot of thought before I write to anyone and sometimes I just write to give a compliment to the female usually, with no expectations. If I see a pair of boobs that I like or a gorgeous FF physique, I'll compliment and let them know clearly that I wasn't hitting on them. Now, if I want to hit on someone, I make that clear too.

I broke my own code the other day when I received a "Hi beautiful" from a really cute, young guy. He's new to the LS and I gave him a few pointers as how not to wind up in the SM asshole category. When I was done, I wrote, "is there now any reason for us to speak?" He said "yes," I called and the rest is history. To date, I have great expectations for him. Sometimes, when we know better, we do better....hopefully.

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I noticed a misspelled word and deleted to correct.....I don't like being disciplined by the spelling police;)

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Abjectly Weird and WTF- is a good description for a variety of topics found in today's threads. Over in 3some forum you can read about "SM human toilet for $300" experience offered to a couple by a "loser" in their inbox. Next, over in the Fantasy Forum, a kinky chick in the "if you could fuck anybody" thread who would fuck her hot first cousin if she could.

Goofy emails from strangers that simply say HI are annoying, I might reply back "HI" and end the conversation there, but I won't be meeting them. If anybody wants to dangle BAIT in my direction with the hope of getting a real BITE, they need to dangle something better than a silly HI.

Mrs. Uriah

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and the chorus shouts AMEN SISTER!

Mrs Sav

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Mrs. Sav: Whew. I'm good then since I've complimented several profiles with zero expectation of ever meeting. Either the pic or the profile. But I make a point no response is expected and for them to have fun and be safe. There is no expectation.

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