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So you're telling me that your new Vanilla boy toy ,should he join this site, will not consider an email from a single female as "interest" because he isn't jaded??? Could this conversation get any more ridiculous? Whether you want to admit it or not this is a swingers site where people are looking for sex in the same way that Match would be a dating site for people looking to date. When one gets an email from ANYONE there is obviously interest of some sort or said email would not have been sent. It has been stated before and this conversation simply reiterates it ........single women/couples have a huge issue with a guy rejecting WHATEVER it is they are offering. Talk about crazy

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I am beginning to think that for all the reasons expressed by you VA and others that I want to bring a vanilla man into the LS who in likelihood won't have these pre-set thoughts. I was under the impression that the LS was so much bigger than what has been expressed here.

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Nothing is *wrong* with it. I am just saying that most people will interpret contact from out of the blue as "interest " so whether it was your intention or not, it shouldn't be surprising that he interpreted it that way.

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VA: That's why I question whether or not I am a real swinger. I am more interested in the social aspect as opposed to the sex which in my experience hasn't been off the chart in many instances as I've yet to develop any real intimacy with anyone so I am not that enamored to just put notches on my belt. I've had LS partners in the past where we have just hung out because we were both in the LS but not necessarily interested in each other. WTF is wrong with that?

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BLT ,

If you do not want people to comment, question or discuss your comments I'd suggest you refrain from posting them. I have no need to make you look like anything. You've done a great job of establishing where you stand when it comes to who pays for what all by yourself. If others I perceive you as a freeloader or cheap I don't need to take responsibility for it. Peoples perceptions manifest on of their own accord based on what they see, read or hear. Carry on with the full knowledge that anything anyone posts is opened to discussion and the poster has zero control over what course the conversation takes.

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Interest does not equate "wanting to fuck". However, I would not make contact to "hang out" with someone that I felt I had no chance of establishing chemistry with.

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All I can say is WTF!

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Sav: I wasn't interested in him if you read the post. It was an open-ended invite just to hang out if he was in my area. It wasn't a fuck date. Your constant attempt to make me appear cheap or a freeloader is to no avail. Don't you have someone else to stalk?

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What happened to the theory of those who invite pay? Funny how that went by the wayside, if the same gentlemen first wrote to you and invited you to hang out there is zero doubt, based on everything you professed in previous conversation that he would have ben expected to pay. Thanks for clarifying how that works.

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Sav: He's single and I am single so we would probably go dutch to a LS club and I am able to host at my place. We all know I don't pay nor split the cost of a room, especially with couples. That's the beauty of being a unicorn.

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