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Think of it this way.....

We are swingers. Our marriages are described by most as "unconventional" at best, and "downright fucked up" at worst. Yet, they work for us, even though many or most people don't understand and know it wouldn't work for them.

For us to sit here and say "no way would I let this happen" is every bit as narrow-sighted as a vanilla person saying "no way would I let my wife fuck another guy". It's not how we live or within a realm we are familiar with, but that doesn't make it ridiculous or impossible. So perhaps we should stop trying to imagine how we in our (comparatively) conventional lives and living situations would behave and impose it on people who in no way live like we do.

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agree--don't care how big the house (mansion) is. if my S/O was suffering -- no matter what the "norm" was otherwise--i would be checking in to make sure he/she was okay. and i cannot fathom being married to someone and not at the least stopping by on my way out to say bye, see you later, talk to you later, ~whatever~.

just unfathomable IMO to not even check in.

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I'm just saying it's easy for us to attempt to scrutinize and imagine how we would live if we were like that, when the truth is that none of us have any clue. We might think we do, but I don't think we do.

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I don't care if I had to walk across a huge mansion, I would be saying goodbye, I often have to leave the house, go over to the barn, through the barn to find him to say goodbye.

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VA: All the more reason the Butler, the maid, the driver, the live-in nurse or someone should have checked on him even if they had to cross a moat! I am not buying it.

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Please, all of us at imagining how this could happen in our comparatively normal lives. Celebrities often live married lives apart and parallel, at best. This is Robin Williams in his $35 million mansion, not Joe Blow and his wife in their tidy 3 bedroom condo. These people do not live like us.

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TPG: That sounds like a lyric to a song....the name I can't recall right now but you are absolutely right. We take so much for granted.

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I can't imagine not saying goodbye to the one I loved before I walked out the door for the day. Or he walked out the door. You never know when it might be the last time you see them.

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DD: Not to be funny, but you would be a great witness for the double amputee in Australia (I can't stand him) who claimed he shot his gf because he thought she was an intruder.

My earlier post is all garbled. I think the site has issues because I always read it over and then when I read it again it's jacked up.

10:30 am is pretty late first of all. If I had concerns about my SO under these circumstances, even if I did not awaken him or her, I would stick my fucking in head to at least see that he or she was okay. Not for nothing, don't they have a housekeeper or someone. I am sorry, this just doesn't sit well with me. I pray it is what is but will we ever really know?

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i think like DD says different homes have different styles and ways of living with each other.

that being said--knowing that my beloved S/O was suffering from depression deep enough to require treatment? would mean i definitely "checked in" with them often. even if only to reassure myself they were okay.

definitely a WTF for me too.

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