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No, never liked Getty's voice...

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A Rush fan, are we?

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Which gets us into a whole discussion about free will...

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i like the mandatory community service sentence--much better than prison term.

i favor the "fruit lady" approach also. i *never* give cash but have often bought fruit and/or water or hot chocolate and given that instead, depending on the weather.

and i *so* understand the various points of view expressed about homeless and the many reasons (and choices) for it.

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As is often the case we agree on much more than we don't.

I've never said that we shouldn't help anyone, but it's fine that you want to emphasize it.

What I don't want to hear, however, is that "nobody chooses to be homeless". I'm not saying that you've said it, but many have, and it's patently untrue.

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Here's a (slightly) flip side homeless story...

There is a group of gutter punks (5-10) that often hang out and panhandle at the intersection near a grocery store I sometimes go to. They take turns on the corner holding up a "homeless and hungry" sign to gather change from the cars that get stopped at that intersection while the others rest in the shade.

I NEVER give the gutterpunks money BUT if I see them out there on my way into the store I pick up a bag or two of mixed fruit. When I pass them upon leaving I hand them out to them. They now recognize me and when they see me pulling up to the corner they all start jumping up and down and yelling excitedly "fruit lady, fruit lady..." and thank me profusely for the food.

That could go into happy thoughts :-)

~rabbit~

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I've done homeless outreach as part of former jobs, and as a volunteer outside of employment.

I don't usually give money to these guys if they accost me on the street. I have enough deadbeats in my wife's family that I have to fight off.

I think that we are in substantial agreement that these people exist. Just the frequency differs.

My point is that we should not stop helping those in need because of the idiots. There are idiots in all systems.

I don't think you are saying that either, but it needs to be emphasized imo.

And HFT actually has a point for once. The attempted mainstreaming of mentally ill into society is a dismal failure.

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As for such a person rarely landing in your office, tbr...

Why would they? If someone is determined to have a drug problem, or mental health issues, they are sent to someone such as yourself. But if they are just a lazy asshole who won't do *anything* for themselves? Who do those people get referred to? "Excuse me... where do I go for the lazy asshole appointments?"

And, even if they were referred for help, why would they go? The very nature of their problem means they would want nothing to do with you and your "help" (as they'd see it). They don't care about your help or what you have to say. Unless you're giving them money or something they'll just walk out the door.

That is just how it seems to me. I doubt I'm totally off on this sort of thing, but I could very well not appreciate the efforts you'd go through to find people who need help, as you looking for them is the only way I'd imagine you'd make contact with them.

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The State Of New York, years ago released so many inmates with mental issues. Those people ended up on the streets and homeless. Some government when the great State of New York can do that. Where did these professional idiots thing these inmates were going to end up? No care or supervision. WHAT A DISGRACE.

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"I think that the type of person you describe is rare in the homeless population. You think it is more frequent. Our perception colors our willingness to help. "

I didn't ascribe a frequency to this kind of person, and I'm certainly not saying they are a majority. I don't know if they could be considered "rare". Maybe a third.

I know you have dealt with homeless people a lot more than the average person, but I have too. I think most are some combination of addiction, mental illness and personality disorders, with some people drawing off differing proportions of all three. I think you see it that way too.

I'm speaking mostly of the chronically homeless, not the kind who sleep in their car for a weekend to bridge situations, or people like we were in late 2014 stuck between housing living in a hotel (which, actually, is considered "homeless" by the Census Bureau).

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