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VA: That's why I question whether or not I am a real swinger. I am more interested in the social aspect as opposed to the sex which in my experience hasn't been off the chart in many instances as I've yet to develop any real intimacy with anyone so I am not that enamored to just put notches on my belt. I've had LS partners in the past where we have just hung out because we were both in the LS but not necessarily interested in each other. WTF is wrong with that?

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BLT ,

If you do not want people to comment, question or discuss your comments I'd suggest you refrain from posting them. I have no need to make you look like anything. You've done a great job of establishing where you stand when it comes to who pays for what all by yourself. If others I perceive you as a freeloader or cheap I don't need to take responsibility for it. Peoples perceptions manifest on of their own accord based on what they see, read or hear. Carry on with the full knowledge that anything anyone posts is opened to discussion and the poster has zero control over what course the conversation takes.

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Interest does not equate "wanting to fuck". However, I would not make contact to "hang out" with someone that I felt I had no chance of establishing chemistry with.

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All I can say is WTF!

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Sav: I wasn't interested in him if you read the post. It was an open-ended invite just to hang out if he was in my area. It wasn't a fuck date. Your constant attempt to make me appear cheap or a freeloader is to no avail. Don't you have someone else to stalk?

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What happened to the theory of those who invite pay? Funny how that went by the wayside, if the same gentlemen first wrote to you and invited you to hang out there is zero doubt, based on everything you professed in previous conversation that he would have ben expected to pay. Thanks for clarifying how that works.

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Sav: He's single and I am single so we would probably go dutch to a LS club and I am able to host at my place. We all know I don't pay nor split the cost of a room, especially with couples. That's the beauty of being a unicorn.

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So riddle me this had he taken you up on your offer would the evening be at YOUR expense?

Inquiring minds want to know....

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Why did I not know that my post would be thoroughly dissected? I am not looking to fuck everybody I communicate with. I am single and it's nice to have a "buddy" on occasion to go out with instead of going alone. You don't have to be Mother Theresa to do that. That's why I hate the expression that we are all here for the same thing. We definitely are not!

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I gotta agree. If I were a single guy and some single girl from the other side of the country was writing without giving a very specific reason (such as - I see you are into cycling. Can I ask you a few questions?) I could do nothing else but assume there is some interest there. To go off on him because he assumed so seems kinda loco to me.

While most "no thanks" emails go unanswered, I never fret about a short "thanks for replying" email, however. Only once did I feel obligated to answer a "why not" inquiry, because we had a small email history before in which we at least expressed some degree of interest in seeing more, and our perceived change in attitude prompted an "we thought you guys were interested" email. No problem. We did reply with "just a call we made. Nothing personal. Good luck."

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