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VA: In this one instance, I am playing Devil's Advocate. The pictures are hot and since he's new, perhaps he doesn't know what to say??? Perhaps even shy. Now, if he does it again, I will gladly nominate him to the SM asshole column....LOL

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Two things. 1.) Let SLS stop mail from single males, I've had a few profiles that have done that option. And 2.) replace your block button with one that works since you seemed to have worn the original block button out.

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I know it seems harsh, and it's unfair to many singles who aren't idiots, but this morning I am again faced with a birdie from a single male, 110 miles away, profile is one day old, no pics, and the entire message was "Hot hot hot!".

I was probably more irritated than I should have been.... I don't know. Maybe it's unfair, but when we get an email for a single male like that (or couples with no pics) the word "Idiot" instantly comes to my mind, and I am probably not alone.

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Yondude: I second your post. When I read this thread earlier this am, I had similar thoughts but you expressed them much better. Thanks.

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Bah who cares. Be yourself that's a lot easier and the ones that doesn't work for aren't the ones you would have fun with anyway.

Only benefit of getting older is that you truly do give less of a shit what people think.


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Shesmooth: Agree. Always felt it was a good thing to compliment someone whenever the opportunity presented itself. A great looking couple. A fantastic level of fitness. A well written profile. Those catch my eye and I just want to say thanks for that. If I enjoy something someone's done I think it's only fair to make it known. Maybe it's the nature of the LS that causes people to warily eye each communication from an unknown. Mrs. Sav makes good points and I won't argue since I'm new to this. Guess just a by product of bad experiences. Another lesson learned.


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This thread has taken a weird turn. I remember the days when flirting was acceptable in these forums, and often even welcomed.

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For me it's this classic:

Sheldon: I'm not insane, my mother had me tested!


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My favorite Sheldon quote.

Sheldon: Why are you crying?

Penny: Because I'm stupid!

Sheldon: That's no reason to cry. One cries because one is sad. For example, I cry because others are stupid, and that makes me sad.

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A sincere compliment is always appreciate but unfortunately far to often there is an ulterior motive . Point in case the whole topic of people in the forums who don't acknowledge when they've been complimented. A compliment is a gift and as a gift there should be zero expectation of a "return" . At least that is how it is suppose to work but obviously doesn't. Sheldon (Big Bang Theory) sums it up pretty well. "Sheldon Cooper: Oh, Penny. I know you think you are being generous, but the foundation of gift giving is reciprocity. You haven't given me a gift. You've given me an obligation. "

And before you disagree with me ask yourself how many Christmas gifts you buy out of pure joy and how many you buy simply because it is the expected thing to do . Think Secret Santa , that lonely spinster aunt you never see but buys gifts for your kids etc. Compliments aren't really much different, if you want to capture someones attention (especially here) compliment them, stroke their ego ! Perhaps that is why I don't tend to take compliments in this venue seriously...a few might be genuine but most are the just a rehash of what they've said to the last poster or in a certain instance "see what a great guy I am???" . Good intentions yes, sincerity.....not often. Most are just doing what they've been taught on how to be polite and how to captivate your audience .

The cynical , perceptive Mrs Sav

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